just forget it
just forget it
- Thread starterTrevor
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roadrunner
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Sounds like another one of those "Oh, just fuck it all" days. It's the most normal thing in the world to have them Trev, especially when a guy has been working as hard as you have.
Much love,
Larry
Much love,
Larry
roadrunner
Registrant
Trev,
Much love,
Larry
Actually, like a very angry and very hurting survivor. You deserve to say every word of that and more. Good for you!
Much love,
Larry
markgreyblue
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trevor?
this is good to share your anger
without being though a bitch myself -
or trying to
one of the aims my therapist then taught me
once he helped me see the value of venting
and my right and prerogative to vent
he then started to help me
see how i could take that anger and stuff
and put that all
to putting me further on my daily life -
learning to express anger -
learning then how to put it away - when needed -
to recoup - when needed to do something out of that context -
you are doing good work here Trevor -
I just have one concern -
when you get angry and vent -
does it help?
I hope so - I mean - even if temporary -
- pax
m
this is good to share your anger
without being though a bitch myself -
or trying to
one of the aims my therapist then taught me
once he helped me see the value of venting
and my right and prerogative to vent
he then started to help me
see how i could take that anger and stuff
and put that all
to putting me further on my daily life -
learning to express anger -
learning then how to put it away - when needed -
to recoup - when needed to do something out of that context -
you are doing good work here Trevor -
I just have one concern -
when you get angry and vent -
does it help?
I hope so - I mean - even if temporary -
- pax
m
roadrunner
Registrant
Sorry Trev - goes with the territory. 
Yes, Sarah will be pissed. Why shouldn't she be? You being angry doesn't cancel out her right to have nice things in her home.
But the up-side of this is that she loves you and she will understand. Those feelings aren't touched by broken "things".
Much love,
Larry
Yes, Sarah will be pissed. Why shouldn't she be? You being angry doesn't cancel out her right to have nice things in her home.
But the up-side of this is that she loves you and she will understand. Those feelings aren't touched by broken "things".
Much love,
Larry
Hauser
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Trev, your life is gonna matter more to you when you're a little older, and it's good that you're trying to deal with this now rather than ignore it. And I gotta give you credit, you're crass, bitter, ill-mannered, violent, and short-tempered, 
, but at least you're not ignoring your problems like I tried to do when I was your age. I WISH so badly that I was at your stage of recovery when I was your age. You have much to be hopeful for!
And please hold on to that hope, no matter how slim it feels, because you have more going for you right now than I do, because you'll soon be in a position to start out in your (very soon to be) adult life, more functional and able to deal with the real world.
, but at least you're not ignoring your problems like I tried to do when I was your age. I WISH so badly that I was at your stage of recovery when I was your age. You have much to be hopeful for! And please hold on to that hope, no matter how slim it feels, because you have more going for you right now than I do, because you'll soon be in a position to start out in your (very soon to be) adult life, more functional and able to deal with the real world.
i dont meen to be ForeverFighting
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See? You are a good guy. Everything that's ever been done to you matters. Everything that's ever been done to all of us matters.
Take care, Trevor.
Take care, Trevor.
Hauser
Registrant
I WOULD tell you to fuck off if you beat me at my favorite video game (couldn't happen) or if you cut me off on the highway, but not for just being yourself here at this DB. You have a unique sense of humor and I can't be offended by it.
Trev, do you have goals? Do you plan on getting out of your house as soon as you're 18? How are your grades? Will you be able to attend college once you're out of High School? Could you please fill us in on what you plan on doing?
I just stumbled through life growing up, and I never set those important goals. Please don't make the same mistakes I made.
Trev, do you have goals? Do you plan on getting out of your house as soon as you're 18? How are your grades? Will you be able to attend college once you're out of High School? Could you please fill us in on what you plan on doing?
I just stumbled through life growing up, and I never set those important goals. Please don't make the same mistakes I made.
what video game?
goals? i dunno.
i hafto get my ged cuz i didn't
finish high school cuz i couldnt so
i hafto do that first.
i did ok in school when i was there
till the last year then i just skipped
and smoked lotts of pott then i tried
killing myself and couldnt go back
my sistrs husband lets me work with him
anytime i want to make money and i
have some saved. a couple of my
friends wanna get a place 2 gethr
when we're 18 so ya i wanna get out
of here like the day i turn 18. but
then i hafto get a real job and
that will suck. i could keep riding
my dirtbike and i can make money doing
that if i win but rite now its
busted cuz i dumped it at the last
race. college? i dont think so.
and what do u care anyways?
goals? i dunno.
i hafto get my ged cuz i didn't
finish high school cuz i couldnt so
i hafto do that first.
i did ok in school when i was there
till the last year then i just skipped
and smoked lotts of pott then i tried
killing myself and couldnt go back
my sistrs husband lets me work with him
anytime i want to make money and i
have some saved. a couple of my
friends wanna get a place 2 gethr
when we're 18 so ya i wanna get out
of here like the day i turn 18. but
then i hafto get a real job and
that will suck. i could keep riding
my dirtbike and i can make money doing
that if i win but rite now its
busted cuz i dumped it at the last
race. college? i dont think so.
and what do u care anyways?
Hauser
Registrant
Close Combat 3. You wouldn't like it Trev, it's not a game where you run around and just blow people's heads off. This game requires a little strategy, you probably couldn't handle it.
My major concern for you is the potential to waste many years that could otherwise be used to help you progress in life, rather than just "getting by" and just "getting a job". It's my hope that you won't follow that same pattern that I did, because it really sucks when you look back in your life, as I am doing right now, and seeing all those wasted years. Don't waste your years Trev, set some goals!
Hey! Just thought of this, check out your local community college's job training courses. I recently took a job training course myself. https://grcc.edu/?PageID=32
https://grcc.edu/?PageID=2642
With this program, I'v landed an Intern position at a prestegious non-profit foster care facility, and I now have a chance to make a career for myself, and it's something that I can be proud of doing and get a certain level of satisfaction in it.
So, if college is not for you, check out a local job training program offered by a community college in your area. You won't regret it.
Why do I care? You're the only one on this DB that makes me laugh that's why.
My major concern for you is the potential to waste many years that could otherwise be used to help you progress in life, rather than just "getting by" and just "getting a job". It's my hope that you won't follow that same pattern that I did, because it really sucks when you look back in your life, as I am doing right now, and seeing all those wasted years. Don't waste your years Trev, set some goals!
Hey! Just thought of this, check out your local community college's job training courses. I recently took a job training course myself. https://grcc.edu/?PageID=32
https://grcc.edu/?PageID=2642
With this program, I'v landed an Intern position at a prestegious non-profit foster care facility, and I now have a chance to make a career for myself, and it's something that I can be proud of doing and get a certain level of satisfaction in it.
So, if college is not for you, check out a local job training program offered by a community college in your area. You won't regret it.
Why do I care? You're the only one on this DB that makes me laugh that's why.
wait did u call me crass, bitter,
ill-mannered, violent,
and short-tempered before?
ru sure thats all? think about it
there mite be more to add to that
list!
and i probly couldnt handle it?
a video game?
what make u think i just
like games wher i run around and
blow ppls heads off?
u can kiss my ass
i would
beat u at that game in a second!
goals schmoals! who ru my mothr?
oh no if u were her youd be trying
to get in my pants thats rite.
im just joking
i do have goals. first one is to
get the ged like i said.
aftr that ill get a job and get
out of here then i can figure out
what classes to take so i can get
a real job aftr that.
i wouldnt mind something with working
with planes like fixing them or even
flying. i dunno yet.
i dunno i say no college but who
knows like a yr or 2 from now maybe
ill change my mind.
ill-mannered, violent,
and short-tempered before?
ru sure thats all? think about it
there mite be more to add to that
list!
and i probly couldnt handle it?
a video game?
what make u think i just
like games wher i run around and
blow ppls heads off?
u can kiss my ass
i wouldbeat u at that game in a second!
goals schmoals! who ru my mothr?
oh no if u were her youd be trying
to get in my pants thats rite.
im just joking
i do have goals. first one is to
get the ged like i said.
aftr that ill get a job and get
out of here then i can figure out
what classes to take so i can get
a real job aftr that.
i wouldnt mind something with working
with planes like fixing them or even
flying. i dunno yet.
i dunno i say no college but who
knows like a yr or 2 from now maybe
ill change my mind.
roadrunner
Registrant
Trev,
Hauser has some good ideas for you - the kinds of things you will be thinking about further on down the road. The point is this: Whatever is happening now and however bad things look, you DO have a future.
Interesting question: "What do you care anyways?" An even more interesting answer: "Why shouldn't we care?"
Much love,
Larry
Hauser has some good ideas for you - the kinds of things you will be thinking about further on down the road. The point is this: Whatever is happening now and however bad things look, you DO have a future.
Interesting question: "What do you care anyways?" An even more interesting answer: "Why shouldn't we care?"
Much love,
Larry
roadrunner
Registrant
Yes, of course it is. Think about it.
L.
Think about it.L.