Intimacy Issues
Mommasboy73
Registrant
On the introduction forum I summarized my experiences I had with my mother starting when I was 28. My whole life I was always told how incest was supposed to be bad and abusive but, my experience was much different. I willingly embraced this relationship as well as my mother and, it ended up with us falling in love. I know how that must sound to most people in society but, matters of the heart can be very complicated.
We have since moved on but, I have experienced problems when it comes to intimacy with other women and even my wife. I find it difficult to maintain an erection during sex without thinking of my mother and I usually don't last more than a few minutes without risking losing my erection. This all stems from my past with my mother. I also find it difficult to get excited unless my wife performs the same acts with me that my mom and I used to do.
I know therapy would help but, there is no way for me to see a therapist without confessing to my wife about my past with my mom and some secrets are better left that way for the sake of everyone. Until I lose my mother or divorce I'm afraid therapy is out of the question. At least in person anyway.
We have since moved on but, I have experienced problems when it comes to intimacy with other women and even my wife. I find it difficult to maintain an erection during sex without thinking of my mother and I usually don't last more than a few minutes without risking losing my erection. This all stems from my past with my mother. I also find it difficult to get excited unless my wife performs the same acts with me that my mom and I used to do.
I know therapy would help but, there is no way for me to see a therapist without confessing to my wife about my past with my mom and some secrets are better left that way for the sake of everyone. Until I lose my mother or divorce I'm afraid therapy is out of the question. At least in person anyway.