Hi Stephan,
I was abused by my father I am in the UK but you are welcome to p.m. me. I find that I can relate to lots of what is posted here, gay or not and regardless of what relationship guys had with the abusers. The trauma and effects seem very similar. I did therapy some years ago and thought I had dealt with enough of this, it came back up again for me last year so Im back in therapy.
Welcome to the site,
Peter.