I'm off to find where I belong....

I'm off to find where I belong....
O

orodo

Registrant
My wife and I had another blow out. I won't trouble you with all the details, I'll vent all that to my therapist. Suffice it to say that I have to try something different. She says, I need to get off the computer. So, since nothing else has worked, if that's all she wants, I'll try it. I don't know how long I'll be away. Know that I have grown alot with your support, and will miss our chat and discussions. LYLAB.

and one more lyric

Tina Turner - WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT

From the album "Live In Europe"

You must understand though the touch of your hand
Makes my pulse react
That it's only the thrill of boy meeting girl
Opposittes attract
It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore that it means more than that

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

It may seem to you that I'm acting confused
When you're close to me
If a tend to look dazed I've read it someplace
I've got cause to be
There's a name for it
There's a phrase that fits
But whatever the reason you do it for me

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

I've been taking on a new direction
But I have to say
I've been thinking about my own protection
It scares me to feel this way

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a sweet old fashioned notion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken...

I'm off...

Peace

orodo
 
:(

Sounds like your wife does not understand how important a place like this is for us.

I wish you luck... and will miss talking to you.
 
Orodo, take care friend, do what you gotta do, and I hope at some point maybe soon it will lead you back here. You will be missed.

Victor
 
Be strong Marc.

"The man that hath not music in himself, nor is not moved with concord of sweet sounds is fit for treasons, strategems and spoils; The motions of his spirit are dull as night, and his affections dark as Erebus.
Let no such man be trusted.

Shakespeare. The Merchant of Venice

Never let the music die.

Dave
 
Do what you must.

Come back if you can and it is safe for you.

While you are gone I will think of you.

"Any major dude with half a heart
surely will tell you my friend,
any 'mount o' world that breaks apart
falls together again,

and when the demon is at your door,
in the mornin' it won't be there no more,
any major dude will tell you"

- "Any Major Dude" by Steely Dan
 
My wife have the same blow up on a regular basis. Basically I end up sharing the details of my abuse with her until she wants me to go back to the computer. Its a cycle, you'll be back. I have benefitted from your posts.

Peace
MO Healing
 
((((((((((((marc)))))))))))))))))))
just remember you are not far from our hearts
peace brother
......t
 
I will miss you here, you have been here since day 1 for me. I have seen you go though some big time healing in this last year. You have helped me in so many ways.
My wife doesn't understand either,they don't know how much healing power there is here at this web site. What difference does it make if I am in front of the TV watching some sick show or here with my brothers. I get so much more from my time here.
Take care my Eagle Scout Brother. Muldoon
 
We will be here when you can come back.
 
(((LYLAB)))
 
UM

FYI

I have moved out of my home, living at mom's, since tuesday last. Retraitre pour mon esprit. Ca marche.......
 
I don't know French, but

Welcome Back!
 
salut , on ne se connait pas mais je comprends ta situation , moi je ne suis pas encore au point de parler de mes problemes avec ma femme. Je te souhaites que tout aille bien et j'espere que l'on communiquera dans un future proche
Tone
 
Orodo,

Leaving your home and living with your mother both
have gotta be tough, even if they are the right things to do, what is best for you, for now anyway. I hope this all turns out for the best for you, fellow survivor. Hope to see you here when you can get here. Take care.

Victor
 
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