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lostboyalone

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I dunno if this will help. I tried the chat and two guys talked to me and it was ok but I dunno.
I told one person what happened and like maybe now I told two.The guy in chat asked questions and maybe I shouldnt said nuthing but I did. I dont know what I'm doing.
 
Welcome. Excuse me my English skills. I welcome you to here. I - also newer person here, and was more starting to work past of the last problems, abusings, traumas and losses. It will be difficult to me, to start to understand things I ignored their importance before, and also is difficult, because I am limited more in English though I read it rather better. I think, that it -the big thing, to speak it at last, that what happens, and to understand it, to be wrong. I had much difficult with it. It should feel like probably heavier and it is heavier for you during short time as old things become new again. But I see two friends who worked above it longer than I, and both it is much better than when they begin all this. I shall think success for you.

VN
 
You are in the Righy Place. I am sry you Need a site like this But I am Glad you found it. I have been here only 2 months and when i first Got here I was scared shitless. Not sure what to expect or what to say and Now I feel safe for the first time in My Life and Have awesome friends. You dont have to do anything you are not Ready for But you are also welcome to ask or tell anything you want. You will find an awesome group of guys of all ages here that will be more than glad to help if they can. Read other peoples stories and see if you find anything that helps and Dont feel you Have to do anything "The Right Way" Do it your own way and that is all you need to do.

There is Nothing stupid or dumb or wrong about asking anything so ask away. And Welcome. I Hope you Find as Much Love and Peace as i have here.

You are Not Alone any More. We Care, I Care and Yoou Are Not Alone.
 
Please be careful in chat, some guys will push you to say things that you are not ready to say.

Keep yourself safe here, it is you that matters, and if anybody asks you things that are innapropriate, then report your concerns to the mods.

Chat should be safe, and most times it is, but it is important to avoid being questioned here, by anybody, so use the ignore feature, and do not be scared to use it,

take care,

ste
 
BoyAlone (for you are not lost any longer),

I am very sorry that you had to seek this place out. I am new here as well, only having been here a week or so, but in that short time I have found support and compassion like nowhere else. Everyone here has their own unique issues, but we all have two important things in common: we desperately need support and assistance in dealing with the trauma visited upon us, and we have found a place where we are understood and our issues are treated with the deference they deserve.

Welcome, brother. You are not alone any longer.
 
Lostboyalone,

Others have welcomed you, so I will just comment on the screen name you have chosen. All of us know those feelings of being lost and alone; that comes from the terrible burden of what has happened to you. There is a lot for you to read and talk about here, and I hope you will soon discover that you are not alone. That is a wonderful thing that happens quickly to guys who come here. Quite often a new person thinks that he will never be understood or accepted, and then comes here to find this great crowd where we all know exactly what you are talking about and will never blame you.

On being lost, yes, we have all known that feeling as well. Guys you talk to here will tell you that recovery is one of the most difficult things you will ever do, but you are not lost anymore and you can get your life back. A lot of the support you need you will find here.

On the chat room, guys will sometimes welcome you and ask questions in order to get you started with the group in the room. But if you feel awkward or don't want to talk yet, just say so and things should be okay. Don't feel you have to move faster than what you feel okay with. There are no rules, and the guys here will want you to feel safe and comfortable. Chat is moderated so if anything happens that you feel funny about, just tell a moderator and he will help you.

As you are young, you will get a mod buddy who will look after you and also help you to feel safe here.

Take care,
Larry
 
Lostboyalone,

I would like to add my welcome to you here. As always is the case with new persons here, I regret that you have need to find this site, but I am glad that you have found it. I hope that you find this site as supportive as I have in my time here. It is an emotional place, and sometime it seems very much the roller coaster, but it is much more good then bad! I am glad that you have discovered chat also, as it can be very helpful to have 'real time' conversation. I wish you good luck.

Leosha
 
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