im afraid of confronting my attacker.

he is my cousin. and i need him to know how much he has ruined a little boys life some 30 years ago. how im so afraid of having any friends get too close to me. or how i keep wondering why he did what he did? maybe he is still doing it and i can stop him. we need to let all the little boys in the world know its okay to tell when something bad happens before so many years pass without help.

 

[michael Joseph]

see my memo I sent.

think this out carefully, can it be in writing, ect. If you confront in person bring someone for support, that is mt suggestion. I did when I did it.

 

If you don't feel like you are emotionally ready to confront him then you don't have to do it. Take care of yourself.

It is such a difficult decision to make but I am sure that you will get support from the people here, no matter which you choose.

Peace,

Jim