If i could..
Trapped765
Registrant
I am sorry for your pain and confusion. Every human needs love and care. Some need it a little some a lot. I have begun to think that's what they pick up on from us. It's an easy thing for them to give us what we need and take what they want. I liken it to a broken slot machine they put in a little some thing and it pays off again and again because its broken. They broke us their way so know exactly how to program our responses.Thanks for listening to me this morning...everything just went completely sideways in my head..
I usually have better control....
I don't like this feeling....
The feeling of freefalling....
Spinning out of control.....
My emotions have more rule over me, more than I'd care to admit...
Emotions are.....weird.
Its easy to feel the rage...the anger...
Quite the opposite to admit the other feelings....
*shakes head*..
You are programmed to feel the way you do. He downloaded a virus into you and corrupted you badly. You can reprogram yourself with work. Understand the love is not necessarily what your real feelings are for him. Don't be hard on yourself many people without our trauma have the same problems.
As for the anger, a girl i knew used to punch one of those big toy things that never fall down. You hit them and they roll over and then bounce back upright. She'd hit it again. She taped a picture of her abuser over it. What you feel is valid and as my wife says "i hate emotions they make no sense!" It is possible to have conflicting emotions at the same time and both be valid. It's strange but true. We will listen and care for you.
Blessed be and peace unto you brother.