I have not called him for a week!!!!

[moonshine]

I have not called him for a week,its hard not to pick up that phone and dial his number but I am proud of myself.....Last Tuesday he was supposed to see his son we made a date I thought this time will be diffrent he will come around it never happend he never showed up I waited around for 3 hours I know I sound soooo pathetic and he hasent even called to say sorry!!!That was the last straw, I figure if he dosent love him self how can he love someone else and thats how I get on with things is thinking that way....I will never understand how he feels and I dont really think he would ever open up to how he truly feels!All I can do is hope that he gets help with his drinking problem and that friend that bosses him around and tells him how to live his life,..Really I think its the friend that bothers me the most mean guys got the controls on him..Why whould he let a friend control him?Does he see him as a father figure I mean this guys almost 9 years older then him its weird to me....

Well Thanks Again for letting me vent it felt nice getting it off my sholders...Take Care

 

[outis]

Moonshine,

I hope you're getting a chance to enjoy your time with your son. It's a tired old saying, but so true that they grow up so fast. Our oldest is already 11 years old, and it seems like those years zipped right past.

Hope you both have a good holiday weekend.

Joe

 

[PAS]

Moonshine: dont forget my last post on why would someone let themselves be bossed around - after years of being treated like crap, those of us who have suffered abuse tend to choose people to be with who continue to treat us like crap! Sounds funny, but it just feels more comfortable.. Our early life experiences shape us and teach us what to expect on how to be treated.

Through therapy and other support we can break free of that cycle but usually not until something motivates us to do so (depression, lost relationship, health problems due to drugs/alcohol, combination of these, etc.).

Soccer