I have fear of the Christmasholydays.

[Naihtstar]

I have my parents promised which I in the holidays to them drive. But now I have fear before it. I have my parents recently said which I a few problems have and to a Therapie went. Also which I make in such a way everything and which is it a trauma like my Doc says. But I do not have them said from where it come, what happened in former times. I spuehre my nut/mother it feels that know it. But which addresses and asks if it me? I cannot lie then and her become accused make and thoughts. And it will try it figurativy will present and then? Can I see it then still into the eyes? Their large boy it who know small boy introduces itself? No.

 

[lostcowboy]

Hi Naihtstar, If the subject comes up, I don't think it would be that bad to say that you don't want to talk about it at this time, you can even say that your therapist does not want you to talk about it at this time. I don't think it would be a bad lie to say this. When you are ready, you will tell them what you want to tell them.

 

[Naihtstar]

oh yes but i think my mom know it, feel it and i think he will be unhappy ahy yes he has not see it manny years. hm no good start for hollidays i think.

 

[Lloydy]

Naihtstar

It is up to you who you tell about your abuse - and when you tell it.

Only tell if you feel safe inside.

The family gatherings at christmas and other times of the years can give us a lot of stress, and that makes it a difficult time as well.

Talk to your therapist about this decision to tell your family, make a plan and stick to it.

Dave

 

[Leosha]

If she knows about it, she knows about it. It is not that if they know, you are bad person or anything. It is up to you, if you want to tell of it, and no one can make you if you are not ready. It don't matter if it is your mother or someone else. If they ask about the therapy, just say it is something you need help with, and you aren't wanting to discuss it yet. Good luck.

leosha