I have done that

I have done that
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alexey

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Today I called a telephone line for females who experienced sexual abuse, but they said they help males too. It was the first time ever that I talked to a Russian person about the sexual child abuse that I suffered.

wow. It feels good.

I have done that.

The woman helped me a lot. We just talked about the sexual abuse that occured in my childhood, and the problems I have now. She seemed to understand be rather insightful AND not judging AT ALL. She did not judge me for what happened to me and even reassured me that it was not my fault. Now I know that in Russia, there are people who care about survivors of sexual child abuse.

Alexey
 
Alexey,

That's great news! It's so important that you feel you have people physically closer to you who understand your issues and are able to support you without judging you.

I'm really happy for you.

Much love,
Larry
 
Good for you Alexey! It took courage to make that call not knowing what kind of response you would get! It feels so good to know that there are people out there who will validate our feelings!

It's very sad to think that the only people who are willing to blame a child for such unspeakable acts are the victims themselves. This childhood sexual abuse stuff plays crazy and mean games with our minds. No. It wasn't your fault!

God Bless,

Brian
 
Thank you, guys,

Please, celebrate with me this small victory. I share with you my victory. I know that there are people who care about male survivors of sexual child abuse and can listen to their pain.

Best wishes,
Alexey
 
Actually, isn't it a pretty big victory? Look at what it means to you?

And who made that call to the help line, not knowing if there would be any interest at all in a male survivor of abuse? Well done.

Much love,
Larry
 
I did it. I have told my truth, and I was listened to, and they didn't judge me, and reassured me that there is nothing shameful in being r*ped.

I was able to call them, and I overcame my uncertainty. It is another big victory over the ab*sers. I tell my truth now, and I am believed and uderstood.

Thank you.

Alexey
 
Alexey,

I am so happy for your victory. I know how awesome it feels to be heard. I'm glad you were able to experience it also. Another victory in your life, one of many more to come is my hope.

Lots of love,

John
 
Thanks guys. To me, it is very important to know that you listen to me and can share my victory. It is ours.

Today I also called a crisis line, another one, and I heard that many men become s*x*ally ab*sed, and that they actually can get support from counselors and those who care. It was nice to hear. It was great to hear that the person who talked with me on the phone didn't think I was bad, and that other people also don't think so. I could believe that she understood me.

She said to me to search for counseling in my area, and she added that good, well trained counselors do help male survivors. I am going to consider seeing a counselor.

Alexey
 
Alexey,

I'm happy for you. I hope you will be able to find a qualified counselor in your area. I wish you the best in your search.

Lots of love,

John
 
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