i have befriended the wrong person

i have befriended the wrong person

markgreyblue

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hi -

i have made an aquantence here -

who i fear is a multiple personality

who is very nice at one minute

and then not nice the other -

i am cutting ties as quickly as possible

although he has given me opportunity to find work here -

it is very confusing - and i find myself being bitter to the old extreme of closing myself off -

it is that i recognize this old demeanour in myself of childhood -

total bitterness of just being an opportunity

usable - for others that is reminding

me that it is a moment -

that there are people out there

who are very good to me -

it's pass -

i guess - i will keep goin -

but ugg what a weird shit pile life is

if feels just all grey and

nada
 
Mark,
you are such a gentle soul and spirit. Remember that not all of us are in the same place. We are all experiencing our trials and tribulations differently. Be gentle on yourself and remember, this is the internet, be a little cautious. Your friend, Andrew
 
Thanks Andrew -

I will be gentle - but at the same time

by here - I mean to say Toronto - not this site -

this site - I can deal with -

nobody is abusive here - like this person in TO is - so apologies for miscommunicating -

I am not cuttin ties with MS - at all -

Thanks Andrew -

That is what I meant - by here --


M
 
but i have heard of the multiple guy here -

and I hope the best for him - the nightmare must be horrible -

god bless sir -

mark
 
Gotcha. Gotta tell ya though. Toronto is great city. I spent a large portion of my life there. Jus' watch out for the sharks. But enjoy. Peace, Andrew
 
Mark,

I think you are making a very good decision by opting for cutting ties with this person at an early stage. Who knows, he may be an okay guy who just has problems - so say we all. But the point is that this person is having a bad effect on you, and it could get a lot worse. You are just being cautious and wise by putting your own feelings first and listening to the warning signals.

Take care,
Larry
 
yes - it is a good idea -

i was seduced again by him - thinking he had just a bad day or there was a side to him that was ok -

but again - he became so abusive i have cut ties with him now totally - i did not say as such - but i cannot engage him -

the job offer that was extended to me by his friend - was pulled after 2 interviews

yesterday they were supposed to call me to tell me when the third interview was and when i would start - and they completely blew me off-

and that same day - "David" became ruthlessly abusive - out of the blue -

i am getting shark spray - and new radar -

M
 
mark sorry this went this far hope you are doing ok now, hugs hugs hugs hugs u r way too nice for this stuff
 
thanks -
 
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