I did it.

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I did it.
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Well its over , I confronted my sister this afternoon , it took a little over 3 hours to do.

I feel such a sense of relief , almost like a huge weight has been lifted off my chest. I wanted to get it all off my chest and I was able to do so. She listened to everything I said and I read everything off my letter.

My sister is a very unemotional person but she became very emotional at times , crying and apologizing repeatedly . She said that nothing she could ever say could express her sorrow and shame that she felt. She repeatedly asked me what she could do to help me , my other sister and I discussedd this .

She is going to help me in whatever way possible including financially which I unfortunately need right now.

So here I am and I feel a renewed sense of hope for my future , this is the first time I've felt like this , so thats a good sign.

What do u guys think?

Take care ,

Jack
 
sounds like victory, looks like victory MUST BE VICTORY!!!

Happy for you!

Tom
 
Jack

My friend I think this is terrific. Granted it only sounds like she is doing what she should be doing, but from what I've seen & heard most perps don't respond that well. Not to take away from how difficult and painful this was for you to do.
But you have set us an example of hope Jack. Thank you. Here's hoping your sister follows thru and you can find more of the help & hope you need & deserve.

Victor
 
Jack:

Way to go my brother wolf. We are all so proud of you. The relief is obvious in your post.

This is a step towards reclaiming your dignity. A very large step.
 
Jack,
I hope you can walk a little more freely now. Hopefully you'll now have some more energy to focus on other areas. Areas that will make you feel better.
Take care,
mike
 
Holy crap, dude, that is great!!! What courage,

I imagine you might feel some letdown now that you have overcome such a huge hurdle...hang in there, you are wonderful, strong person.

Peace and safe hugs,
Jamie
 
Congratulations, Jack! That's quite an accomplishment, and it does sound like just the kind of outcome you would hope for.

Pretty gutsy. Good job.

Joe
 
Jack, that is great so glad it went well for you. Perhaps both you and your sister can heal and began a relationship of love and respect. You deserve to be treated that way and maybe she will be able to do that for you.

Ken
 
Jack! Congratulations on the courage to confront! Congratulations on following through with confronting your perp! Congratulations for taking back the control taken away by your perp!

A double blessing in that your perp responded to your confrontation; she showed emotion and remorse; and she wants to make amends. These are all pluses in that our confrontation is generally for ourselves - to get all that inner stuff out whatever the perp does is not as important as what we do!

I am happy for you and the courageous work you are doing for your healing.

Howard
 
Jack
that is such good news, wow - that must have boosted you so much.

Keep building on that feeling Jack, you deserve your life back.

Dave :)
 
Terrific, it must feel good. I know I feel alot better even though my prep and father are dead, I recently was able to speak out and the relief is unbelievable. Stay strong, keep posting, your courage is an inspiration to all of us.
Thanks
Bob
 
Jack,

you are my hero, you are the Alpha Wolf here, your courage is an inspiration, especially for me to face my demons.

In the times that I've spoken with you, you have uplifted....now it's your turn bro.

I've never howled before, so excuse the crackly voice here: owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww-aaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

Peace to you Jack.

(Edited to shorten length of post box for ease of reading; just added a hyphen. BTW Jim that's one heck of a howl! :cool: --Victor).
 
Jimrh: Welcome back brother wolf. That was a good howl as far as I am concerned.

AAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWHHHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOO
 
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