I am a retired veteran

I am a retired veteran

TryingtoHeal

Registrant
Just wanted to let people know that I am a retired Iraq war veteran. I didnt suffer any abuse during my service, but I thought I would let people know. I have some knowledge of resources, and if any fellow vets would like to talk I am hear..
 
Hello fellow Iraq war veteran (I was in the Navy from 90 to 96 - 2 trips to the gulf)

I suppose that by todays standards one would call becoming a member of the "Bald Eagle club" abuse - back then it was just "hazing" that wasn't even given a second thought
 
Hello fellow Iraq war veteran (I was in the Navy from 90 to 96 - 2 trips to the gulf)

I suppose that by todays standards one would call becoming a member of the "Bald Eagle club" abuse - back then it was just "hazing" that wasn't even given a second thought
 
Thanks for your service. It was a different world back when I first joined in 81. I got out for a while and then re-upped and finished my time.
 
guess im the old guy here Marines 75-79 Recon ranger oooh-rah
 
Trigger warning...
Joined the Army in 1984, did 24 years.. was abused by 2 black sergeants when I was a PFC.. that seemed to target married white guys.. had 5 of the married white lower enlisted stay after work and GI the latrine.. where the single guys lived..had us using bleach so had us undress so not to get bleach on our BDUs.. Watched and made derogatory comments about our little penis's and shapely asses while we worked.. After about 30 minutes had us fall in. Did a short Army inspection and making comments about how sad our wives must be with these little insignificant things. Then one sergeant pulled his out.. It was huge.. walked up and down the line so we could all see it.. Then went down the line and told us to feel his with one hand and our little p****r with the other. I was last in line and to my horror got a little boner.. He laughed and had the other sergeant dismiss the others and kept me there. Grilling me about why I got hard..and finally put me on my knees and told me life can get really hard or really easy for you boy. His thing touching my lips and finally just grabbed my head and told me go ahead, he knew I wanted to.. the other one returned in a few.. They kept me there for about 2 hours using me hard. Continued for several months until they transferred.. Went to OCS and got commissioned a few years later and my black Battery Commander cornered me in his office and did the same thing.. Need to know I am loyal before he "went to bat for me" at evaluation time.. His demands kept getting more and more.. Almost daily or twice daily before he got relieved for harassing a female officer... In both instances, the threat was they would show my wife what real sex was unless I became their sex toy.. Lots of SPH, black breeding of my wife and race inferences...all of which they seemed to get off on by seeing how it affected me..
 
USAF '69-'75. I was a medical tech working in a regional hospital taking care of paraplegics and quadriplegics. Very mind-numbing. I was raped by a nurse (all nurses were officers) for about 3 months till I was transferred to a different floor. I couldn't do anything; couldn't say no otherwise she would report me to the APs that I raped her. Men raped women back then not the other way around. So I was stuck till I transferred off her floor.

I worked on a 50-bed (?) ward with para and mostly quadriplegics. life expectancy for a quad was 20 years. that means they're all dead. That has fucked with my mind all these years.
 
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