hurting others

[reality2k4]

Things get to me here, and i dont hold punches either.

I am hurt, we all are here, so why do people not respect so much others here.

Yeah, I was thinking that this should be in the unmod forum, but no, it belongs here.

Why? Because peoples feelings are being hurt in here, and it is deeply wrong.

I have my own hurt to deal with, and yet I find myself picking up pieces of people who hurt others here.

I dont need this, I really dont, I stay up into the early hours to talk ppl out of not feeling so bad about what others say.

It sure wears me out sometimes, but I would never leave anyone vulnerable and scared, and I sure would never make anyone feel that way.

I cannot sleep so much, so staying and helping is not so much to me, but the hurt I see really does and it is not right.

It is wrong that I have to pick up pieces of others hurt, it hurts me too, and deeply.

TRIGGERS

I am the little guy who tried to kill himself at age 11 or 12yo, he was rescued.

I guess he may have been hurt, but he cannot be hurt anymore,

just dont hurt,

ste

ps just editing this to say I am seriously thinking of getting out of this hurt too cos its too much

 

[crisispoint]

((((((((((((ste))))))))))))

You need me, I'm here. I understand what you're saying because I've been there, too. And you're right. No one should be hurt here.

I care about you, my friend.

Peace and love,

Scot

 

[Leosha]

Ste,

you are right. No one should come here and encounter more hurt, specially if it is directed personally toward that person. There are going to be issues discussed here that will hurt. That is the nature of here. It is a giant raw nerve, and we all tread as lightly as we can on it. But at times, it will be stepped wrongly on. That is nature. Personal attacks, those are not.

However. I guess people are going to be people. And at times, hurting people will lash out at others. Will hurt others, whether they mean to or not, it is unknown. We can be hurt by it, and often are. But also, even that, we can learn from. We can learn better ways of dealing with that, because hurt will occur in life away from this site. At least here we can have support when dealing with it.

No, that above paragraph does not mean I think it is ok or right to hurt one another here. I just mean it is possible to take something positive of it.

Leosha