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[jacats]

Hello my name is jay, I grew up in foster care and then got into sex work stuff, it doesnt really come up a lot in my life now except I am a single parent and that can complicate things, just that having him makes me think of me at that age, if that makes sense. I had to drink many glasses of wine to sign up here lol

 

[AlexBoyd]

Hi Jay. Welcome to MS. You are making lots of sense about your child reminding you of yourself at his age and the things you experienced. I had the same experience when my son turned a certain age. I'm glad you signed up here. It's a major step to a new start.

 

[Esterio]

Hi there Jay

Welcome to MS. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help. Sorry for what you have had to go through to need a site like this. I am glad you found us. I hope it doesn't take so many glasses of wine the next time you come here. It is a good place to be. I hope it is as helpful for you as it has been for me.

Esterio

 

[Bluedogone]

Hi Jay, Welcome,

I’m glad you found MS, if a bit of wine helps, go for it.

When my boys reached the age I was when my abuses began it was an emotionally charged time, so you’re definitely not alone with those feelings. The only consolation seems to be he will grow up .

I hope you find, as I have, you’re not alone in dealing with a horrific past. We’re here to listen, learn and share.

Blue

 

[i-m-Bri]

Hi Jay,

You are not alone here. As a teenager I hustled.
I'm glad you signed up.
I know it can be scary, more power to you for doing it!

 

[AuthenticMe]

Same thing happened to me when my eldest child approached the age I was when the abuse happened. You’re not alone.

 

[wearytraveler]

x

 

[movieman]

Welcome Jay, you have the instincts of wanting to be a good dad. Things can get messy, I still work on boundaries in many areas of my life. Sorry for what happened to you before and now the struggles with your son. Keep reaching out, Ted