He's being arrested, need help

He's being arrested, need help
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little alex

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I need help, advice, streangth and the ability not to whimp out on this. He's getting everything he decerves. I've done the hard part so this should be a piece of piss but I'm FUCKING TERRIFIED.
There is no turning back and I dont want to, his life can crumble but I take no joy in this. There is no whoop de do or hooray about this but he must suffer and get a tiny piece of what my family and me have gone through.
Its right and proper that he gets arrested, I hope to fuck it goes further.
I know I can do this, I know I'm strong enough and I know that you all know how I've felt in the past leading up to this.
Next Monday cant come quick enough because thats when the rest of my life starts.
 
Alex, Be sure to stay around people you feel safe with and stay in touch with the Discussion Forum here. Maybe get in touch with a social worker at the local hospital, your family doctor or church.
Peace, Andrew
 
Alex,

You can do this. You have the strength. Here's hoping Monday comes soon.

Like Andrew suggests, be sure that you are safe and don't be reluctant to reach out on this board.

Another perp must answer for his deeds. Bravo.

Zipser
 
Alex,

Monday will be huge, and bravo for what you are doing. But the emotional turmoil could get really rough. Staying with safe people is essential, as others have said above, but also don't hold back from telling them how you feel. Or saying here what you feel. Whatever it is - fear, anger, joy - getting it out and communicating with others will help you to deal with what is happening and reap the greatest benefit from it in terms of your recovery.

Take care - will be thinking of you!
Larry
 
Alex,
I need help, advice, streangth and the ability not to whimp out on this.
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You have all of those, here and in yourself.

Like the guys say, getting it out will help a lot, and this is a great place to do that, 'cause the people here won't judge you for feeling what you do. Some have done the same sort of thing and felt the same sort of feelings that you do now.

I'm praying for you.

Thanks,

Joe
 
Alex - I've not been here for a few days, but I guess from this post that your abuser has been arrested because you have made a complaint (correct me if I'm wrong).

I don't know if you live in the UK / USA / Holland / Australia / Russia / Serbia or some other country that SURVIVORS here live in?

I live in the UK & made a complaint to the police about my abuser on the 17th October last year (will be celebrating that birthday when it comes).

My abuser has appeared in local magistrates courts twice - had a call today to tell me that he is about to make his first appearance in Crown Court tomorrow (Friday 30th Sept) - this will be where he has the opportunity to own up to what he did (anyone want to take a bet on his declaration - thought not!).

I was abused way back in 1969 - I hope that you have not carried your pain for so long.

Alex - you can do this. You do it for yourself, but remember that you also do it for those here that cannot do it for themselves.

Best wishes...Rik
 
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