hello
roadrunner
Registrant
Seb,
Huge difference indeed! Your dad may be hurting a lot because of problems with your mom (you said she left and that's when he changed).
But the bottom line is there's nothing wrong with you Seb. If your dad is screwing up that means he's having problems and taking them out on you. That's wrong.
A good way to see how wrong that is shows up in the fact that you are feeling really bad about being Seb. There's a lot to talk about there, but just for now I want you to know you are doing exactly what you SHOULD be doing: you're talking about things. Maybe you don't see this yet, but talking does help.
Please also believe you are safe here. No one knows who you are or even where you are, and we have mods who make sure things stay okay here. No one will come in here and see what you are saying, and then take it back to your dad.
Much love,
Larry
Huge difference indeed! Your dad may be hurting a lot because of problems with your mom (you said she left and that's when he changed).
But the bottom line is there's nothing wrong with you Seb. If your dad is screwing up that means he's having problems and taking them out on you. That's wrong.
A good way to see how wrong that is shows up in the fact that you are feeling really bad about being Seb. There's a lot to talk about there, but just for now I want you to know you are doing exactly what you SHOULD be doing: you're talking about things. Maybe you don't see this yet, but talking does help.
Please also believe you are safe here. No one knows who you are or even where you are, and we have mods who make sure things stay okay here. No one will come in here and see what you are saying, and then take it back to your dad.
Much love,
Larry