My husband’s porn addiction has escalated to the point that he is now looking at gay BDSM porn and reading gay erotica when he’s sitting in the same room with me. I’ve started working with a therapist. We started working on ways for me to accept and help him find ways of being sexually satisfied in our marriage. I feel like I’m the only one trying and I think it is time to start working on a new life for me without him. I can’t save our marriage by myself. He can be so kind, loving and caring one minute, but then have no control over hurting me the next. I’m just tired of it all! Trying to be supportive and strong for him and he continues down this dark path.