Hard reality

[Brokenhearted]

Saw my T yesterday and she laid it out for me. She said if my H does not seek help and deal w/ his csa before too long, he WILL lose me and daughter, because I CAN'T be pushed away forever, just can't, no one can stand it that long, and then after he loses us, he WILL lose his job b/c it will all come crashing down on him after he has lost us. She said that IS the reality.

She said the men who come in to deal w/ their csa have hit bottom through drugs or cutting or whatever.

It is just a hard reality. Please pray that he will seek help before he loses us by pushing me away for too long. I don't know when "too long" is but already this 5 months feels like a year.

 

[shadowkid]

your husband has one thing none of those others had ,you, the t is right about hitting bottom before we seek help ,and maybe loosing all those things is what it will take to give him a reason . i hope not.