i dont understand why people are afraid of the chatroom ,its the same people who respond to your posts ,i dont get it .i spend a lot of time there and it is not some terrible scary place with people hiding and waiting to ambush each other. no one there would ever intentionaly try to scare or trigger anybody , but thats just me and i understand if its not for everybody ,its just that the chatroom gets to seem like a bad place with all the posts about bad things happeneing there,i dont see it ,for those who have progressed to the level that they can talk realtime it is a very healing place ,maybe not for everybody ,but its not a bad place at all .