Goodbye- sort of

Goodbye- sort of
At the stroke of midnight tonight, I will be off the Board of Directors of MaleSurvivors for the first time in ten years.

So, I will be gone but will still be involved with MS at least for the bulk of 2006. I agreed to chair the Conference and that will take up a good deal of time and work. I will continue to moderate the At Risk and Sexual Identity forums until someone is willing and able to take them over. Of course, I will be reading and responding to the 2006 Conf forum.

I will no longer be the Board member in charge of the website, although there is no replacement person designated yet but Thad and SAR will continue to run things as they have done so well over the past few years.

During my time with MaleSurvivor, I witnessed and helped move the movement (which is how we started, not as an organization) to the biggest and best organization devoted to helping male survivors, their loved ones, and the professionals who work with them. We have dealt with many controversial issues and I believe MS has developed a "big tent" approach while keeping integrity to serve the population we set out to help.

Although I could have comfortably retired by now had I gotten minimum wage for the time I spent with this organization, I truly got back more from all of you (and the many who are no longer here) in terms of learning and growth. I hope that will continue when I finally finish my book for survivors which is the product of working with all of you and the other survivors I've met over the past 20+ years in my practice.

My wife just left for the airport to join our daughter in Austin as she goes into labor and it looks like I'm going to be a grandfather this last day of 2005. I will join them in a few days since I'm probably the least necessary person down there right now.

I trust that my fellow Board members will be up to the task of bringing MS into new and better areas (such as an improved website, more features, video streaming for training professionals, and lots of other fantasies we might be able to achieve in the next few years.)

The organization will grow and thrive with your help if you join with paid memberships, encourage your therapists to list with the resource directory, attend and participate in weekends of recovery and the conference, and get the word out about MS and sexual abuse to the public.

There is much to be done and I hope you will be part of this organization to help it grow and help other survivors as well as yourself.

Please consider volunteering for the conference, whether you will be able to attend or not. We need people right now to identify organizations, agencies and other places that can get the word out for our "save the date/call for papers" announcement that will be going out in the next few weeks. Keep checking the Conference forum for updates and I look forward to working with you and hopefully meeting you in Cherry Hill next November.

Sincerely,
Ken
 
Ken,

This site has changed so many lives and you have been a part of that. From the depths of my soul and heart I thank you. I can only hope that MS moves forward and improves on what you help build. It has been a true honor working with you here. I will look forward to all our futur exchanges and a free copy of your book.


lots of love always, Nathan
 
Ken,
I am so glad that I chose to check in tonight and read your post.

For myself personally I must thank you so deeply for being so committed to helping not only survivors but for helping those who "offend" also.

Your personal efforts have touched my life, my spouses life by your recomendations to therapist who deal specifically with offenders and survivors alike.

Congratulations on your new Grandchild, and YES YOU ARE and important part of being with the birthing of your grandchild. So it is with Great Joy I share a wonderful milestone in life for us. Becoming Grandparents for the first time!

Thank you for your devotion of so many years of being a VERY important part of helping to Break the Silence of the "worst of secrets".

God Bless and God Speed, Enjoy the highlights of living this life!!

A devoted Listener and Learner of your life's work,
Sammy and Family
 
I learn something from Ken with every conversation. He is dedicated, kind, and committed to bringing about positive change in people-- and deserves all the best.

Congratulations, Ken, on the new addition to your family and on ten years of incredible work here.

SAR
 
Thank you for all the good work here. Looking forward to meeting you at the Conference. Keep up the good work !
Warmest regards
Caro
 
Ken,

Thanks for all of your efforts and hard work. I am sure we have not seen the last of you here!

And congratulations on the new arrival. I am sure you will love grandfatherhood!

Much love,
Larry
 
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