Giving up fanasties

[onlyakid]

There are many fantasies that I had that helped me cope with the abuse. I read in a post that the poster had given up his fanasties and was fining the real him. I hope that I can do the same.

I think saying these things might make it easier so here I go.

I don't have to have the coolest clothes and be the most popular person around.

I don't have to have a cool hairstyle.

I can be me and thats ok.

Jason

 

[jimrh]

Giving up your fantasies might work for a while. Then, when weeks go by and you have no affirmation, check back with your real you and see if it really is holding up.

Jim

 

[reality2k4]

J, just be you. When you meet someone in the street with personality and a loving smile, it doesn't matter what they wear or their style.
They just shine.
Ever noticed?

ste