follow up to my story

follow up to my story
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adam31

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dear members,
about a week ago i posted my story in this forum and i got a lot of support from you.most of you asked me about chris, here is the follow up to my story chris told me that loves and he wants me to live with him.in fact, i don't know if i'm gay or not but all i know is that i am so lonely and i need someone beside me. it is so hard and painful to suffer panic attacks and flashbacks alone, just living alone with all these memories is horrible.
secondly, chris helped me a lot and i don't want to turn him down. i feel obligated towards him.i accepted his offer but when the time came and i was supposed to get ready top move in with him, i asked him to give me some more time.
what should i do?
 
Take your time. If he loves you and wants the best for you, which it sounds like he does, he'll understand.

All the best
Mark
 
my advice is to never do something because you feel you owe somebody. do it if it is right for you, and because it is what you want. it is very important for your own happiness that major choices in life are yours and are what you want, in my opinion.
 
adam juat go slow, I was married 10 years each to 2 women. Just make yourself safe an do not jump into anything without thinking about what you really want. Sorry but computer went on the fritz after you said brb on chat. Just be gentle ok with yourself. talk to you soon adam

michael joseph
 
Adam,
Move slow buddy. Don't let yourself feel obligated to anyone for being nice to you. That is how my perp got to me. Move in with Chris only if you feel you want to be with "him" and not so you won't be lonely anymore. It would not be fair to him or you, you deserve more. If you get lonely, tlak to us. I really hope you decide you have the strenth and courage to begin seeing a Therapist.
Much love and admiration,
David
 
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