Fetishes due to sexual abuse
message deletedMine used to be reading incest porn. I've since moved away from it but the pull is there but I'd imagine it as someone elses mum not my own as way of coping.
My sexual/dating/romantic attraction to men and women is also vastly different, not fetish, but not interchangeable.My same sex attraction is 100% around “fetishes”. I have no romantic interest in men, but I want to feel sexually controlled (and therefore desired).
hi. i've also thought of having a partner try some things. but in the end i backed out.
message deletedI have tried to get my partner to play into my fetishes but she won’t because she sees it as “abusing me again”. I think it could be healing to play with those things in a non-shameful and loving way.
Of course if your fetishes could be harmful that’s another matter.
my wife says the same. she will play ‘care giver not mommy’I have tried to get my partner to play into my fetishes but she won’t because she sees it as “abusing me again”. I think it could be healing to play with those things in a non-shameful and loving way.
Of course if your fetishes could be harmful that’s another matter.
Petern:I was sexually abused by my father as a toddler, gang raped at a hunting camp at age 12, and sexually abused by a priest at 15. I had repressed all theses memories until they came back beginning at age 38. I was eventually diagnosed with PTSD and DID. I was in intensive therapy after age 38 for 6 years and have reentered therapy on and off through the years. I was in a survivor's group for a few years. I have been gifted with two wonderful therapists and a fully supportive wife. My faith has also helped me. It's a long struggle but worth it. There have been many positive changes in my life over the years. I have 2 children and 6 grandchildren. I am 67 years old. My fetish is adult diapers which I have noticed is similar to a few other individuals who post here. This is my first time posting. What a wonderful site.