It’s not likely that Anthony is going to answer. Last on in 2014.I am fairly new here, and just do not understand what you mean by coming from love?
I can only speculate what he was saying.
My take: if wearing panties and women’s things give you comfort. It’s probably okay. If they are from a place of abuse or addiction the it’s probably not healthy.
My wife use to buy them for me until I told her that I wanted to transition. At the time we both agreed that it probably wasn’t a healthy practice if it was going to endanger the marriage (ie she isn’t lesbian). I haven’t worn them in a couple of years...