Greetings, I do not know, that I have such big advice(council) to tell. I only wished to tell, that I most of all regret from illness of your wife, I know, that it should be something so very difficult to you also. I am pleased, that you were capable to divide(share) things with it(her) now. You allow from you directly to it(her) as you do(make) it, and she(it) estimates it, I am rather confident concerning it. It - with my sympathy to you and to it(her), please worry about both of you directly.
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