fear and trust //trigger

[markgreyblue]

i am learning to be interdependent - this is
very triggering -
the people who abused me and wanted me to be
subservient - i thought was an interdependent life - yet it was not -
and so i was acting in the harshest of worlds - in confusion as how and why people survived or liked anything -
i know now there is a definite fear of this concept 'interdependence' yet - as recent as today
i am having peaks of the most wonderful feelings with one special guy - and i kind of am learning why people do crazy things for love -

 

[Bill_1965]

Mark,

Now that you are learning what you want in a relationship and out of life, you will be less dependant upon others. Happiness and fulfillment comes from within, not from others.

Take care and the best,
Bill

 

[MikeNY]

I will ask you to still be cautious. There is a difference between independence and controlling someone else. Remember that they are a person too who has individual thoughts and feelings about all of the things that you do. Good luck.

 

[crisispoint]

Mark,

I'm glad you've found the "crazyness of love." You deserve it.

Just be sure to take care of yourself. Be cautious. It's not a bad thing, it's a good thing. The Russians (?) even have a saying for it: "Pravda e Veritze" (sp?). Trust, yet verify.

Something we all must do, I think!

Enjoy!

Peace and love,

Scot