Excursions into the wilderness of foreign survivor sites

Excursions into the wilderness of foreign survivor sites

martin

Registrant
Hello My good men,

I have been away from MS on a regular basis for a about two months now. Was on a mission of sorts in my quest to understand life as a survivor.

In this time, I joined several other survivor sites to learn what they had to offer. In particular I joined sites that had a mixed population of survivors both male and female. Just needed to have the female perspective and gain something that I lacked in childhood--the nurturing of the female perspective.

There have been some fights and battles waged in the meantime and there are some sites with pretty odd rules.

But the main thing I wanted to share is that there are some very caring, compassionate, thoughtful people out there. Some wonderful, amazing women and men, a few I would like to count as good friends.

Know this won't come as any great surprise from any of you, many of you have been out there as well. Well and many of you just know there are some good people out there.

All the while though I could hear, David (Ivanhoe) yell, "Well there are some good guys here too!" in the back of my head :)

Just wanted to share that with you all, spread a little of that around--hope thats ok, don't want to plug any sites in particular just to let you know. Its a good thing!

Wanted to let you know, ie warn you ;) , that I'm gonna try to get back here on a more regular basis.

Thanks,

Aaron
 
Well, Aaron, here's another voice of Ivanhoe for the back of your head,

"Ya, get your butt back here."

Good hearing from you. Welcome "Home," you've been missed, but glad you had a good "trip."

It is amazing what this site has opened me up to, even in my own, "neighborhood."

Nothing like coming home, however, and, Aaron, it IS good to see you and hear from you, again.
Your comments and care have been missed. Stick around or divide some of your time, if you can.

Good to have you back, no matter for how short or long we have you this time.

Brother David
 
I honestly cannot function in survivor sites that have women in them. :( I am always on edge so I am cranky and irritable and end up lashing out at them all the time... it's also kind of hard to be a male at a lot of those places, because they shun you sometimes, like you are somehow responsible for their abuse just by being a guy...
 
David,

Missed you too, my brother. I will be stoping in more often and posting.

I see they made you a moderator, a good choice! I know you always support us 110%. Good to see you!

Josh,

I did encounter some women who have a certain distrust of men. I suppose they have their right to it on their individual basis. Pretty much just offered those women my friendship and would give them some room. There are a lot of female survivors out there that really are interested in hearing from the male survivor population too. And are very supportive.

I understand and respect your opinion though. Thanks.

Take care,

Aaron
 
I also am member of another survivor site, which is mostly women. They are mostly very kind and understanding of me, accepting of me in spite of my gender. I have made several good friends there, and have introduced several other people I have met to that site, and this one. Yes, there are some very compassionate people in this world, I am blessed that I have been fortunate enough to meet them. Welcome back.

leosha
 
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