Exciting insight for me - denial is OK

Exciting insight for me - denial is OK
kolisha,

My name is Audrey. Please stop calling me "You!"

I will continue to be direct and bold with my words. It's who I am. If you choose to continually be indirect and vague in your attempt to label me abusive, I think I'm going to have to ignore you.

I agree SAR. There is serious silliness going on here that is a waste of time. I feel like I'm being taken to task CONSTANTLY and I'm still not sure why. I think I'll have to make the choice that if others choose not to treat me respectfully they will lose my respect and my replies. Discussion OVER.
 
Oy.. having been off this board for 4 months trying to get through morning sickness I guess I"m glad to have had the break...

Not being involved with this thread I can read through this with a clear mind and see that EVERYONE has a point.. BUT I can also recognize when people are triggered. As an abuse survivor myself and PTSD sufferer who is married to a male SA survivor I can recognize when anxiety and fear pushes someone into the "flight or fight" reaction (personally I'm a fighter when pushed to that point).

With all due respect - can the moderator lock this one up and stop the carnage? I think the car has gone over the cliff here...

P
 
OK, this is getting very close to being locked down.

As the forums admin my brief is to keep MS on an even keel, and the whole Moderating team are here to do just that.

We are NOT here to act as the 'thought police' and control what people post, a personal opinion is just that - a personal opinion.
But when opinions start to encroach on someone elses personality, and the debate becomes 'personal' then we act.

This is a very emotive topic, and ForLauren / Audrey is seeking opinions and discussion on a subject that affect so many of us in very different ways.
Some people don't agree with her, others do. That's what 'discussion' is all about, it's what will help Audrey to form her final decisions possibly.

That's why it's important to keep this topic open, but PLEASE keep ON TOPIC and try not to take disagreement over the topic as a personal attack.

Dave
 
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