Doing Much Better

Doing Much Better
Bill_1965

Bill_1965

Thank you all for getting me through the last few of weeks.

In T last week my T asked me why I keep going to the pchycologist that keeps telling me that I will end up being a molester because I was a victim. The answer was simple, for my son. The previous session with my son't T he said that he did not see any indications that my son was being molested. That is good news. Then proceded to beat on me some more. Since my son's T has concluded that he wasn't being molested, I no longer had a reason to keep seeing him.

Tuesday morning I woke up refreshed, I called and cancelled all remaining appointments. I had a small flashback and anxiety attack shortly thereafter. But went the rest of the week with out any.

I did have a bit of an anxiety attack this afternoon talking with the editor of the local newspaper about Tim Robbins' speech, MaleSurvivor, and my abuse. A reporter will be getting ahold of me to get the story to raise awareness. Dr. Gartner should be expecting a call from them, too.

Things are so much better since I took that load off last Tuesday.

Bill
 
bill,
i am very glad to hear that things are going better this week. your words about your response to your t touched me in a way that i cannot adequately explain, "he is my son". this is a very difficult topic for me, but i wanted to let you know that your love for your son is a gift that overcomes all such morons as his t. thank you for sharing that. take care, bill.
 
Bill I am really glad you did what you did.

There is as much chance of you becoming a molester as it is for me to be gored to death by the same bull twice on two different days.

Remember be gentle with yourself and take care.
 
Bill..

Glad you are 'kickin out the jams'...

take your son next month to opening day - the tigers are back in action... :cool:
 
Bill,

You're an inspiration and role model. If parents could all be so concerned and loving as you are, we'd end child sexual abuse.

Glad you lightened your load by dumping what wasn't yours to carry.

Thanks,

Joe
 
Bill, congratulations on 'dropping the load'. There is absolutely no reason I can imagine for a professional to verbal or emotionally abuse a client. That person, he was very wrong to even suggest that the abuse you suffered could make you an abuser. I am very glad that you, and I hope your son also, have no more dealing with him.

Leosha
 
I just came home from T. He commented on the tremendous improvement over the last visit, two weeks ago.

He also told me that my son's former T called him after I cancelled all the remaining appointments. My T said that my son's former T was very animated about the fact that he was very tough on me and kept repeating that fact, then he offered to help in my treatment. Hmmm, I think I'll pass.

Bill
 
Hey Bill... having been talking to you about this for the past few weeks, you know how I feel and how amazed I am at the change in you since cancelling your son's appointments with that ass of a T. And talking to a reporter? Raising awareness? God, you impress me.

But more than that Bill... and you already know this... but the fact that you have fought for your son... it is like you are fighting for the four year old I was when my abuse started.

And I cannot thank you enough for that.

-Sean
 
Glad things are going better for you. You have been a big help to alot of people. take care
Gus
 
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