divorce (help)

[flea]

i hate my self.all day i felt like ending i all.i have not felt that way for a long time.it looks like my marg is over.i feel like such a failer.why do i stay here when i am in so much pain.why do i keep doing the same mistakes over and over agin.i need some help.i do not wont to feel pain and sadness anymore.why was i abused.why is my life so full of anger.i feel so doun.help!!!!!!

 

[MikeNY]

I can think of many reasons to continue, but I'm not going to bore you with philosophy or anything like that right now. For now, I just want to tell you that I care, and I will be here for you.
((((flea))))

 

[Bill_1965]

Flea,

I have gone through a tough divorce. I hated my wife leaving me, without any consideration for me or our marriage.

You are not a failure, neither was I. The marriage failed, not us.

We do make mistakes, but they will pass, and we will hopefully learn from them. It was my failed marriage that lead me to T and lead me to work on my issues. When I started I was at one of the lowest points in my life. Today, I can honestly say that I have never felt so good about myself and life in general as I do now.

I understand the pain you are in now. I can reassure you that it does get better.

Take care,
PM me if you need.
Bill

 

[Ken Followell]

Flea,

I understand your feelings. I just want to add that it is worth surviving to get to the other side of the current pain. know that there are people who care about you and are sending good thoughts your way.

Ken

 

[outis]

Flea,

I don't think any of us can ever quite answer "Why?"

But you are alive. That really is a good thing. No matter how bad things seem in the difficult times, they will be better.

Hang in there. We're here 24/7. Really. Sometimes I come and read old messages from before I first posted. I have found some kind of comfort in reading about guys who've worked through some of this stuff before. I guess it just proves to me that it's possible to get better.

Thanks,

Joe