Disclosure reponse from Dad

Disclosure reponse from Dad
Hauser

Hauser

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Hi guys. If any of you are interested in my situation. I thought I would share the first reply of support and love that I'm blessed to have from my Dad after telling him about what happened. Here goes........................................

It was obviously difficult to bring up the subject of molestation. Thinking back, I wasn't as supportive of you at the meeting as I could have been. Your mother had her cell phone turned off as she was in the hospital which is why she couldn't be reached. I know she really wanted to be there, and she indicated to me, she'd be contacting the psychologists to see what they would have to say besides the recommendations that you emailed to your mom.

I'm sorry that I was too busy earning a living and keeping house to realize that something had gone wrong for you. A more astute parent might have inquired more about changes in your behaviour at about age nine..
We didn't have a chance to talk about the Institute's findings and recommendations. Let me know what you think you'd like to do and I'll back you whichever way you want to go.
Love, Dad


Guys..........isn't this cool?
 
Very cool, my friend, very cool. I'm sitting here with happy tears running down my cheeks for you.

Lots of love,

John
 
Hauser that must be a hell of a relief for you. Now you can look forward to a much brighter new year!

Best wishes ...Rik
 
Yes, very heart warming, I'm very happy for you, and your dad.
Darrel
 
Hauser

I know how much you worried about this, all power to you, I am happy for you.

Duncan
 
Happy for you Hauser.
I grew up thinking all parents hate their kids and treat them as bad as they possibly can, so I'm always surprised and happy to read of family members offering support and love to each other!
 
Hauser, It sure is great that you are still able to get those hugs from your dad. We never out grow them do we?
 
Hauser,

What great news! That certainly puts you both on a very good track and I am so happy for you both.

Much love,
Larry
 
Hauser, what more could you ask for from a Dad than a message of love and support like that one? This is fantastic, and you're really impressing the hell out of me with what you've been doing to help yourself.

{{{Hauser!!!}}}

John
 
Kudos!!!!!!!!!

I only wish my family were as supportive as yours, my Dad has never and probably never will believe me that it was my unlce (his beloved brother) who raped me as a child for 6 very long years. when i confronted him, I did it in front of the whole family, no one believed me, even though he (my uncle) did not deny any of my accusations, but my dada did.

nevertheless i congrat you and myself for being brave enough to share this experiences with your family!!!!!!!
 
Excellent!

That was a crucial point to your recovery. I see courage is one of your strong points. I am pleased to hear that you father was understanding. Sometimes we confront those who are a real piece of work. Good luck!

Jason
 
hey buddy ,none of this could have happened if you didn't have the courage of a lion.what your dad did is sweet but what you did is the big thing here!!must feel so good to risk it all and have it come out right ! smiling for you adam
 
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