Marc,
I need not know what you or the idiot (yep, if he's a reader here, he's a frigging IDIOT!) look like to know a few things.
Would that I had someone like you to get to know in an intimate way. Had enough of looks ('Sides, ain't no Brad Pitt myself, so who'm I to judge?) because those who have pretty faces tell the most ugly lies. I look at the content of character, spirit, soul. And you, my friend, shine.
As for the idiot, well, his actions speak volumes too, and I wouldn't care if he looked like Hugh Jackman, I'd have nothing to do with him.
Marc, you are one to watch.
Love,
Scot