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Ramble as much as you like Tryingtolive. I'm evidence in belief that the brain can change. The science is called Neuroplasticity, also known as brain plasticity, is an umbrella term that encompasses both synaptic plasticity and non-synaptic plasticityit refers to changes in neural pathways and synapses due to changes in behavior, environment, neural processes, thinking, and emotions as well as to changes resulting from bodily ... I Crave intimacy more than anything else, but I acknowledge that right now I'm vulnerable and to stay safe it's just me. I am worthy of intimacy. I am healing the boy within. I am nurturing myself. I am CBT.
If you want it to work, then you will have to change your thinking. I know it's hard but it has to be done if you want someone you love to spoon with you in bed sharing their warmth with you. Sex is a natural healthy thing. The bad comes in the way you are taught or forced to experience it. Demonising the act is unhelpful and a additional barrier to achieving intimacy. The worse thing that can be done is bring another traumatised human into the intimacy of your life, I've had a lifetime of that.
Believe brother if you choose it will come good. There's no substitute for hard work.
If you want it to work, then you will have to change your thinking. I know it's hard but it has to be done if you want someone you love to spoon with you in bed sharing their warmth with you. Sex is a natural healthy thing. The bad comes in the way you are taught or forced to experience it. Demonising the act is unhelpful and a additional barrier to achieving intimacy. The worse thing that can be done is bring another traumatised human into the intimacy of your life, I've had a lifetime of that.
Believe brother if you choose it will come good. There's no substitute for hard work.
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