defining words

defining words
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some posts here have been dealing with the definition of certain words ,words that have different meanings ,i can define the word family very easy , male survivor, i used to get up alone go to work alone and go to sleep alone ,now i can have breakfast with my family ,and talk to each family member every day ,there is nobby the wise one who helps me understand life and myself ,there is bobby the kind compassionate brother who helps me feel whats inside with his words ,there is hauser the big brother who keeps me on the straight and narrow ,there is kuurt my little brother who is fighting a mighty battle,roadrunner who always knows just what i need ,walking south who is like a rock ,johnsurvived who just by his sig ,tells me that i can survive ,oh crap i have to go but want to add more to this later ,adam
 
This is really nice Adam, really touching.. I'm glad you found a family that you can count on. I always hoped I'd find one too someday, but I give up.
 
And I'm honored to be part of your new family Adam.

Your story helps me to not take my own family for granted. (Which I confess that I think I often do).
 
Adam,

That's a cool post my friend. So often our blood family is the circle that has let us down, but we are NOT stuck with that. We can just redefine our circle and move on. I am honored that you mentioned me.

But do try to look around for people in your local area that you can trust and relate to. There is, after all, only so much that we can do for each other here in cyberspace.

Much love,
Larry
 
Adam,

thanks for looking after your little brothers, they really appreciate it.

When they had no place to turn to in life, luck brought them here,

ste
 
i need to add that there are too many here to name each one but each one feels like family,larry your right about needing people around me to trust and relate to ,but for now i am satisfied with the friends i have here ,i understand that for many the site is a tool to be used for recovery ,and many have friends and family around them ,so the site is a place that, they have along with their lives. but for me i never stayed in one home or place long enough to make real friends ,besides i knew lots of things that kids my age didnt ,you know? family was something that other people had something that i didnt have that made me even more different ,more outcast,more alone, in foster care there were families and i even lived right there with them ,but it was never my family ,i wasnt a part of that thing that everybody else had, i realize that i shouldnt depend on the site so much ,but if its not family its the closest i have ever been to one .its so much better than what i had before .someday i'll have my own family but till then i am really happy for the family i have here. adam
 
Wow, Adam.

I am so moved by the content of this post. This is indeed a family, even to some of us who have loving family in our lives. These people here understand you and I in a way that most family cannot because they've never experienced what we have. That makes them family in a way that is special in it's own right.

Thanks for pointing this out, and thanks for being part of my family. That is very special to me.

Love you, Bro.

John
 
Adam,

I see what you mean. It's good, then, that you are taking things slow. Rebuild your ideas of what trust and family mean and then proceed from there.

Much love,
Larry
 
Amen to this post, Adam. Each person here brings a different gift with who he is. And each has changed me for the better, and allowed me to see life from his own perspective. I feel loved and cared for and, in turn, cherish the times when I can give something back. If that's not family, I don't know what is. Bobby
 
( ( ( ( ( (((((Adam))))) ) ) ) ) )

I know what you mean man. Even tho I have a family of my own, I consider my brothers here family also.

Love ya

Darrel
 
Adam - thanks for the post. That's the first time I've had real tears in my eyes since I walked out of court when the perv got convicted 14 weeks ago.

When you look at everyone here, we are from a range of age groups, and we live all over the world...yes we are all brothers / surrogate fathers / sons / brothers...yes we are a family, and a real family that cares.

Love you all and hope you sleep well every night / hope your dreams are pleasant and that you live fullfilling lives.

I really meant that word LOVE...it's a word I have difficulty in using. Yes I LOVE YOU ALL! Brothers or whatever you are!

Best wishes ...Rik
 
Hey Adam,

I am glad you pay things forward.

In another post you said that you would like me as a father.
And I would love to know my son was so strong and blossomed into a real good man.

I am just playing a game of fighting with my dog, and he always wins, he will guard his bone with his life, crazy dog,

ste
 
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