Confused (but isn't everyone?)
I am new to this board. Actually I haven't really talked about my abuse to anyone. I am confused because I was sexually abused by two different guys in my neighborhood, but around the same time. I think it was when I was 8. It was mostly just fondling and touching. I rarely think about it, and I don't have any real shame that I am aware of. I am gay and depressed and obsessive and probably neurotic. I just wonder what being molested did to me that I am not aware of. I went through middle and high school searching for an identity as most did. When I first began to have sexual experiences with men- at 18 - it at first felt like I was reenacting being abused. I wanted to just do what had been done during the abuse. Now - ten years later- I do more, and really can't distinguish where the feelings come from. Maybe being abused sent me down a path of homosexuality. Or maybe it was my parents. Or maybe I was just born this way.
I have often wondered if I was abused at an early age too and just don't remember it. I've always acted out sexually. I can remember being 4 or 5 and getting an erection and getting pleasure from exposing myself on several different occasions. I guess I was a preschool exhibitionist.
Thanks for listening,
Buster
I have often wondered if I was abused at an early age too and just don't remember it. I've always acted out sexually. I can remember being 4 or 5 and getting an erection and getting pleasure from exposing myself on several different occasions. I guess I was a preschool exhibitionist.
Thanks for listening,
Buster