Closure *TRIGGER*
It’s so hard when you have to create your own closure.
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When the abuse ends most times if not all times we have an emotional bond with that person, in most cases we fell in love believing the lies of being special or loved.
As we grow into teens and adults we pick the same type of abusers, we relive the same cycle of loving and caring more than we are cared for and they to end with the other party just leaving without reason or closure.
Your mind is trying to fill in the blanks and answer questions.
Your subconscious is trying to work things out - give you closure - from past relationships and is also integrating your fears of why the relationships ended versus being the real reasons.
We know we tend to blame ourselves when things do not work out, even though the logical mind knows that they did not work out not for lack of trying on our parts, but for issues related to the other individuals. One was an abusive narcissist and one is so emotionally closed off your soul would be left starving. And probably still is because that emotional attachment is still there is some capacity.
*********************TRIGGER*************************
When the abuse ends most times if not all times we have an emotional bond with that person, in most cases we fell in love believing the lies of being special or loved.
As we grow into teens and adults we pick the same type of abusers, we relive the same cycle of loving and caring more than we are cared for and they to end with the other party just leaving without reason or closure.
Your mind is trying to fill in the blanks and answer questions.
Your subconscious is trying to work things out - give you closure - from past relationships and is also integrating your fears of why the relationships ended versus being the real reasons.
We know we tend to blame ourselves when things do not work out, even though the logical mind knows that they did not work out not for lack of trying on our parts, but for issues related to the other individuals. One was an abusive narcissist and one is so emotionally closed off your soul would be left starving. And probably still is because that emotional attachment is still there is some capacity.