Ashamed

Seven,
Welcome. It's ok just take your time. We are here to support not judge. Read some of the post and then when your ready post what you feel. You will find this web site has some of the best men on the planet. Just remember your not alone in your pain. Once more welcome. (((((hugs))))). If you get a chance stop by the chat room, we have lots of fun there.
James
 
Seven. As James says welcome. I am sorry for the reasons that brought you here but am glad that you have found us. Do not ever be embarassed with us. You will find no judgement here only compassion, understanding and respect and even sometimes fun with the greatest bunch of guys it has been my privilege to know. We are brothers in the truest and best sense of the word.

Like Jim says, read the posts, listen and when you are ready add your thoughts and feelings. We are all here for the same reason.

So, once again, welcome brother
 
Seven'
don't be ashamed of what happened to you, someone else did it, they are the ones who should be ashamed.

So many of carry the feeling of guilt and shame for many years, I carried mine for over thirty years, and I know Mike did as well, but we learn to escape it, and better still, we place it where it belongs - with those that wronged us.

When you're ready, join us. You'll find nothing but support, friendship and help here.

We don't judge those who suffered as we did.

Dave
 
Seven,

I wish to add my welcome to the others. I'm glad you are here.

Getting over shame is a difficult thing to do, many of us on this site have lived with shame at some time or the other.

The best way to get rid of shame is expose it to the light of day in the company of caring, compassionate people. There are many of those here.

You are in the right place, so once again, welcome. Take your time and get comfortable here.

All the best,

Aaron
 
Welcome here. As always, I hate that one must have this place, but am glad that it is here. It is always a difficult thing. I can understand to feel ashamed or embarrassed. I still do that often also. Please do take care of yourself, and I hope that you find great support here.

leosha
 
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