... are children always the victim? ... of course

... are children always the victim? ... of course

selene

Registrant
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he is so much in denial of what happened to him...

only way some can deal with it is to tell themselves that they liked it

I worry of him doing such with others too - a person in deep denial often does continue the cycle of abuse...

TJ jeff
 
I'll second every word TJ jeff said there....


These kinds of things make me angry beyond belief......I think of myself/my brother or sister at that age, my step brother at 10, or when my children get to be that age and I think I would want to attack anyone who did those things with an innocent, growing child.....Im sorry if that sounds extreme and violent and is offensive to anyone here, but it's the way I feel........of course children of all ages can/do have sexual feelings in their bodies(although they often don't know that's what they are), and many touch and explore their own bodies and that's all natural and healthy, but that could in NO WAY EVER BE AN EXCUSE for someone's fucked up, abuse of power and confused idea of what sex is. The man is ill in his mind. Denial indeed and no doubt about that.


peace
Beccy
 
... so he goes on to tell me that he's written and given lectures at universities on the theme of "are children always the victim?" ... he speaks and writes that children who experience any kind of physical or emotional pleasure while being victimized aren't really victims in any way ...
I bet the guys at NAMBLA just love this guy!

He's best avoided, but I guess you've already decided to do that.

Dave
 
That someone of supposed intelligence can think that way, it is disturbing and sad.

Yes, children victims of sexual abuse are ALWAYS the victim. There is no reason or thoughts to an adult doing such things to a child, no excuse or explanation.

And 'acting out' or having situations of gay sex or being prostitute do not mean you are gay, too.

VN
 
How sad that people can and are in denial about the real problem when abused as a child. Yeah, i think i would stay away from this guy. I would hate to see any recovery made have a relapse because of somthing stupid someone has said. It would just, one more time, tell us that nothing was wrong with what others did to us when we have worked so hard to face the truth ourselves. light and luv, sis
 
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