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I owe you guys an apology for acting like a complete asshole yesterday. I know its not fair that i only seem to post when im in a bad place but thats because the darkness is so much heavier than the light. My last intention was to make anyone worry and im very sorry for it.
 
Al you do not owe anybody an apology and please remember that. We worry because you are our brother and when you are in pain we hurt with you. Of course we worry that is what good brothers are for. You just have to remember that you are not alone on this mountainclimb. We got guys pushing and guys pulling and guys just hangin on to your hand. And by god we are gonna make it.

AAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWHHHHHHOOOYYYYYYYYYEEEEEESSSSSS
 
Al,

I'm sorry. I posted a couple messages with a different approach than I normally use, and the mods decided to remove one.

I hope you did not take any offense. I did not mean any offense to you or to anyone else. I should have realized that we're all pretty uptight right now, and I should have been more careful in my wording.

And to the mods, Thanks for working to keep this place safe.

Joe
 
Joe
I thought you were maybe trying something different, I just wasn't sure and didn't really have time tonight to check it out properly.

Sorry about that.

Dave
 
Dave,

I can't see all the ways different guys might take something I put here. There's a lot of tension right now, and you did what you thought was best for the group.

That's why you get the big money! :D

Thanks,

Joe

(If anyone reading isn't aware, the moderators are volunteers, and survivors themselves.)
 
Hey Al,

I'm sorry for the turmoil and pain that you're going through, but I'm not sorry that I worry about you. So no need to apologize.

It's really good for me to experience that most moving of all recovery experiences--the open heart. Mine was closed off and numbed out for so long I thought it was dead.

Your honesty and trust in sharing give me the chance to care and to show concern which proves to me that I'm alive, that I feel and that I care.

That's quite a gift, my friend Al, to create out of your sorrow. And I receive it with much respect and humility.

Dave, Joe and the mods,

You guys are great! The lengths you go to simply ensure that no one have the slightest hint of danger or distress from your postings is amazing and inspiring.

Thank you all for caring so much about the effect your words might have on others.

You have inspired me to reflect that perhaps as a survivor of sexual abuse, I might be called to a higher standard of care in my dealings with my fellows.

As someone who understands all too well, the agony of pain from unexpected quarters, I'm going to try to exercise extreme care that I not, accidentally or intentionally, inflict that sort of distress on others.

You guys set me a beautiful example and I am grateful for all of you.

:)
 
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