Anthor Lost

Anthor Lost
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As some of you know, I had a phone called Sunday night telling me my ex-roomate and partner had passed away.

He was my first gay lover and we spent many of good fun hours together but now he is gone. It's been a Hell of a weekend.

I just keep asking myself, how much more hurt can I take. When Will it Stop, will it ever stop and can I continue.

I am at a really lost right now and because of circumstances I can't even go say good bye. I don't know how much more i can take.
Gus
 
Hey, Gus,

Sorry to hear of your loss. Shitty, there is no other word for it. I hope that you find some solace in your friends who have also suffered. Maybe some of those mutual friends who will miss your friend/lover, too. They may need you, as well. You may get back double what you give to them in sympathy and concern.
Losing someone that close to you has got to hurt. I'm sorry that you have to have that in your life. I'm sorry that any of us had to suffer the loss of innocence that most of us have.
Hang in there, Gus, you bring the best of yourself here and we need that to keep going ourselves.
We have got to be the strongest men you know...don't know that myself most of the time...but look what we've endured. You're strong, too, and we need your strength to help share the loads we share here.
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your lover/friend...I do understand some, one of the sweetest people I knew in high school died of a head bleed in childbirth...broke my heart. Be gentle with yourself these next few weeks, we're here for you.

Peace, strength and courage,

David
 
I too am sorry for your loss. You have my deepest regrets. i will remember you in my prayers, and send you a gentle hug

((Gus))

hang in there.

jeff
 
Gus,

I'm sorry. I don't know what else to say, except I'm thinking of you and praying for your peace.

I didn't know this man, only that he was important to you. I grieve for your loss.

Peace and love,

Scot
 
gus..

sorry for your lost;

focus on the good times you shared with your friend.

hang in there.
 
There is a time to every purpose under heaven, a time to grieve....
Just take the time you need to grieve and then move on to the next phase of your life.
I know it hurts when people leave us. But there is a timing and purpose to life. An underlying meaning and reason for living. Realize this.
 
I am so sorry for your loss, the loss of your friend and one time partner. I can not imagine how much devastation that must be. My thoughts are with you, please keep yourself well.

Leosha
 
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