Am i a survivor cos i didnt die?
mrwhiskers
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Am i a survivor cos i didnt die?
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Mr Whiskers,
You are in the most unfair and terrible situation that any young person could be in. The adults in your life have failed you and your brothers. And now you're left to make probably the most difficult decision of your life. You have to take your brothers out of that house and go to the police and tell them what's happening. Yes, you will all at least temporarily be removed from the care of your mother. Yes, there is the chance that at first all of you won't be placed in the same safe home. But the only goal right now is to make sure that all of you are "safe".
I'm so sorry that your mom can't be there for you guys right now. And I'm equally sorry that this all falls on your shoulders right now. But if you can love your brothers so much that you've put up with rape and abuse all this time then you are brave enough and love them and yourself enough to scoop them up and go to the police.
Yes it's going to get crazier before it gets better but you can do it and you can get support for yourself from all of us here at MaleSurvivor.
If you want to PM me or anyone else here you have met and trust please do so. Right now it's important to think as clearly as you can so you can make the best decisons for yourself. You've done such a courageous thing just by sharing your story with us here. Now keep putting one foot in front of the other and you'll get through this.
Keep in touch Mr Whiskers.
Taz
You are in the most unfair and terrible situation that any young person could be in. The adults in your life have failed you and your brothers. And now you're left to make probably the most difficult decision of your life. You have to take your brothers out of that house and go to the police and tell them what's happening. Yes, you will all at least temporarily be removed from the care of your mother. Yes, there is the chance that at first all of you won't be placed in the same safe home. But the only goal right now is to make sure that all of you are "safe".
I'm so sorry that your mom can't be there for you guys right now. And I'm equally sorry that this all falls on your shoulders right now. But if you can love your brothers so much that you've put up with rape and abuse all this time then you are brave enough and love them and yourself enough to scoop them up and go to the police.
Yes it's going to get crazier before it gets better but you can do it and you can get support for yourself from all of us here at MaleSurvivor.
If you want to PM me or anyone else here you have met and trust please do so. Right now it's important to think as clearly as you can so you can make the best decisons for yourself. You've done such a courageous thing just by sharing your story with us here. Now keep putting one foot in front of the other and you'll get through this.
Keep in touch Mr Whiskers.
Taz
Bill_1965
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Mr. Whiskers,
Your "mother", because she is not a mom, is an evil person for making you go through this hell.
This hell you are bearing is a hell that she placed upon you. You need to get you and your brothers to safety. If that means that she and the guys she sells you to go to jail, so be it.
You are a brave young man. You are being forced to do these things, and to protect your brothers at the cost of your own well-being. You are not the one doing this, she is the one forcing and coercing you to. This is not your fault, it is your "mothers".
You are being abused, your "mother" at the head of the list. You are not a 'whore', you are a child that deserves better than that. Your "mother" is placing a hell of a load on you. Forcing you to do those things, telling you that you must to protect your brothers, and telling you that you are living better. She is living better, at the cost of you and your brothers. She is not a "mother".
Suicide is a terrible thing. I kills you for the temporary pain you are in. I know from experience, that the pain feels like it won't go away and it can't get better, but it does. I am glad you survived and are here today. But am so sorry that you are in the hell that your "mother" has placed you in.
Take care of yourself. Get yourself and your brothers to safety. Whatever happens to your "mother" after that is of her own doing.
Take care,
Bill
Your "mother", because she is not a mom, is an evil person for making you go through this hell.
This hell you are bearing is a hell that she placed upon you. You need to get you and your brothers to safety. If that means that she and the guys she sells you to go to jail, so be it.
You are a brave young man. You are being forced to do these things, and to protect your brothers at the cost of your own well-being. You are not the one doing this, she is the one forcing and coercing you to. This is not your fault, it is your "mothers".
You are being abused, your "mother" at the head of the list. You are not a 'whore', you are a child that deserves better than that. Your "mother" is placing a hell of a load on you. Forcing you to do those things, telling you that you must to protect your brothers, and telling you that you are living better. She is living better, at the cost of you and your brothers. She is not a "mother".
Suicide is a terrible thing. I kills you for the temporary pain you are in. I know from experience, that the pain feels like it won't go away and it can't get better, but it does. I am glad you survived and are here today. But am so sorry that you are in the hell that your "mother" has placed you in.
Take care of yourself. Get yourself and your brothers to safety. Whatever happens to your "mother" after that is of her own doing.
Take care,
Bill
Mike Church
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Mr. Whiskers
Heed the advice of Taz and Bill. They have recommended the right course of action for you to take for the well being of you and your brothers.
If you find it difficult to go to the police is there a teacher at school you can confide in. Remember it is not your fault ever and never your shame.
Heed the advice of Taz and Bill. They have recommended the right course of action for you to take for the well being of you and your brothers.
If you find it difficult to go to the police is there a teacher at school you can confide in. Remember it is not your fault ever and never your shame.
crisispoint
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My dear brother,
No, no, no, no, no, no! This is NOT your fault. NEVER is it your fault, and don't ever let me see you write that you're "just a pretty whore" again. You are a valuable person who is being hurt and it needs to stop NOW. Now, because you deserve to be whole, at peace, and no longer abused.
Your "mother" (such an undeserving term for a woman who is full of evil) is using you and allowing you to be hurt for whatever ends she needs. She is LYING to you, my brother. You will NOT be separated from your brothers, and they will make sure you get the help you need.
My brother, I am so sorry this is happening to you. I feel your agony from here and it is MY agony now. And it's the agony of every brother here because we KNOW what is happening to you. We KNOW what's going on, and we care so very much about you. You are worth more than any money your family receives, and it is most definitely NOT worth the pain you're enduring.
My brother, please, call or go to the police RIGHT NOW! It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do, but you need to. Please, you NEED to, because this can't go on. You don't DESERVE this!
As for what happens next, well I can't say. It'll be hard, and there are harder days ahead, but you'll begin HEALING. You'll see the GOOD person you are, and you'll KNOW that what that woman is filling you with are horrible lies! You're a person worth knowing, loving, and protecting, and I wish, WE HERE wish, we could do something for you now. In fact, we are. We care. We CARE about you, my brother.
Please, get the help you need. There will be people to help you through, help you heal, help you get the justice you deserve. WE will be here, whenever you need us. The brothers and sisters here are a great bunch who will do WHATEVER, and I mena WHATEVER, they can to help you.
I care, Whiskers, and I love YOU. I don't want anything in return, and THAT'S what love should be. We ALL LOVE you. Please send a private message to me or one of the brothers (click on one of our screennames, and there are links there to help), and keep posting here, because I feel you have A LOT to contribute.
Please do it today, my brother. We care. We love you. We want you HEALED.
Peace and love, little brother.
Scot
No, no, no, no, no, no! This is NOT your fault. NEVER is it your fault, and don't ever let me see you write that you're "just a pretty whore" again. You are a valuable person who is being hurt and it needs to stop NOW. Now, because you deserve to be whole, at peace, and no longer abused.
Your "mother" (such an undeserving term for a woman who is full of evil) is using you and allowing you to be hurt for whatever ends she needs. She is LYING to you, my brother. You will NOT be separated from your brothers, and they will make sure you get the help you need.
My brother, I am so sorry this is happening to you. I feel your agony from here and it is MY agony now. And it's the agony of every brother here because we KNOW what is happening to you. We KNOW what's going on, and we care so very much about you. You are worth more than any money your family receives, and it is most definitely NOT worth the pain you're enduring.
My brother, please, call or go to the police RIGHT NOW! It's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do, but you need to. Please, you NEED to, because this can't go on. You don't DESERVE this!
As for what happens next, well I can't say. It'll be hard, and there are harder days ahead, but you'll begin HEALING. You'll see the GOOD person you are, and you'll KNOW that what that woman is filling you with are horrible lies! You're a person worth knowing, loving, and protecting, and I wish, WE HERE wish, we could do something for you now. In fact, we are. We care. We CARE about you, my brother.
Please, get the help you need. There will be people to help you through, help you heal, help you get the justice you deserve. WE will be here, whenever you need us. The brothers and sisters here are a great bunch who will do WHATEVER, and I mena WHATEVER, they can to help you.
I care, Whiskers, and I love YOU. I don't want anything in return, and THAT'S what love should be. We ALL LOVE you. Please send a private message to me or one of the brothers (click on one of our screennames, and there are links there to help), and keep posting here, because I feel you have A LOT to contribute.
Please do it today, my brother. We care. We love you. We want you HEALED.
Peace and love, little brother.
Scot
MrWhiskers,
Right NOW look up & call 911, or child abuse Hotline. !! Look in White Pages of Phone Book, Look under County Government, then Department of Child &/or family services, then Child abuse Hotline. Call right this moment or as soon as you r out of hearing distance from your "Mom".
Tell them your name & address, who is abusing u. Name one. You can say your Mom, because its true, she is!
This is the most important call to make!
Please do this!! PLEASE do this as soon as possible!
Blacken
Right NOW look up & call 911, or child abuse Hotline. !! Look in White Pages of Phone Book, Look under County Government, then Department of Child &/or family services, then Child abuse Hotline. Call right this moment or as soon as you r out of hearing distance from your "Mom".
Tell them your name & address, who is abusing u. Name one. You can say your Mom, because its true, she is!
This is the most important call to make!
Please do this!! PLEASE do this as soon as possible!
Blacken
Texas_Mike
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TAKE THE ADVICE....FROM THE BROTHERS';
CALL THE POLICE, @ 911-get away from your mother, son.
REPORT THE CRIME-THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
CONTACT THE AUTHORITIES, NOW.
You can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline, operated by RAINN, 24 hours a day at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), or you can search for your local rape crisis center.
GOOD LUCK.
CALL THE POLICE, @ 911-get away from your mother, son.
REPORT THE CRIME-THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
CONTACT THE AUTHORITIES, NOW.
You can call the National Sexual Assault Hotline, operated by RAINN, 24 hours a day at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), or you can search for your local rape crisis center.
GOOD LUCK.
theo
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mr. whiskers,
you are not and never have been just a pretty object! you are a valuable human being who is entitled to being a cherished human being for being the 15 yr old young man you are. you are not an object or a sex toy that these evil people have said you are. you are a young man who is trying his best to protect your brothers but i can guarentee that your brothers are not being protected because if this woman is doing this to you something will happen to your brothers as well. my maternal perp did the same thing with my sister when she was five until she 8-10 years old saying it helped all of us and that she was protecting her little brother, me, but it was a lie because my maternal perp was selling my sister and using me for herself. please, for your safety and that of your brothers go directly to the cops. you will need to identify the perps that you can along with your mother. some people will have a dificult time accepting this horror, but they have to investigate and the truth will be known. suicide is not an option, mr. whiskers because of everything and everyone it leaves behind and it will not protect your brothers. go to the police and/or child protection services and tell them what is going on with details. it will be very dificult. but the alternative is worse. let us know what is going on and if you need to pm me or anyone here do not hesitate one split second!! we are here for you.
you are not and never have been just a pretty object! you are a valuable human being who is entitled to being a cherished human being for being the 15 yr old young man you are. you are not an object or a sex toy that these evil people have said you are. you are a young man who is trying his best to protect your brothers but i can guarentee that your brothers are not being protected because if this woman is doing this to you something will happen to your brothers as well. my maternal perp did the same thing with my sister when she was five until she 8-10 years old saying it helped all of us and that she was protecting her little brother, me, but it was a lie because my maternal perp was selling my sister and using me for herself. please, for your safety and that of your brothers go directly to the cops. you will need to identify the perps that you can along with your mother. some people will have a dificult time accepting this horror, but they have to investigate and the truth will be known. suicide is not an option, mr. whiskers because of everything and everyone it leaves behind and it will not protect your brothers. go to the police and/or child protection services and tell them what is going on with details. it will be very dificult. but the alternative is worse. let us know what is going on and if you need to pm me or anyone here do not hesitate one split second!! we are here for you.
Listen to these guys Mr. Whiskers. You've got to get you and your brothers out of there immediately. If your mother could treat you this way I sincerely doubt that your brothers are safe.
What happened is NOT your fault. you're trying to protect your brothers, and that makes you a goddman hero in my book. But you need to keep protecting them, get them and yourself out.
Best of luck
Eric
What happened is NOT your fault. you're trying to protect your brothers, and that makes you a goddman hero in my book. But you need to keep protecting them, get them and yourself out.
Best of luck
Eric
mrwhiskers
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crisispoint
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Little brother, little brother, first of all, I KNOW you don't like what's being done to you. I surely didn't like it when it was done to me. Nobody here liked or likes it. It's wrong, and we know you feel you're in a position that you HAVE to comply.
But, my dear Whiskers, it's not worth it. What you're doing, it's not worth it. Not to you, not to your brothers, nobody. It breaks my heart to see you like this because I WAS you. I was you.
Are your brothers REALLY protected? Your "mother" lies to you about how "good" you are at it, how much you "like" it. Are you sure they're not being abused by these animals? Can you REALLY know for sure?
The things that the money buys for them, is it worth your soul? Is it worth the pain you're in? Is it worth it, little brother? Really? You're here seeking help. I think we BOTH know the answer to that question.
Is it the only thing you're capable of doing? No! No, no, no, no, a thousand times no! These again are the lies they're feeding you. I was a good kid with brains, and I felt that the only time I was being "loved" was when my abuser was abusing me. You have bad grades? So what? Albert Einstein couldn't read well! Thomas Edison was dyslecsic (sp?) they say. So what about your grades? There is so much, I know, you're capable of. And this shouldn't be among them! It's not who you are, little brother! There is so much more to you, and you are worth SO much more than that!
As for their power? I've got a secret for you, one they don't want you to hear: YOU HAVE THE POWER! NOT THEM! Why do you think they fill your mind with such poison? Because they know, KNOW, the SECOND you tell, their power is gone and THEY will face the shame they've FORCED ON YOU! My little brother, YOU have the power, and they FEAR you!
My brother, PLEASE reconsider this. We care about you. I CARE ABOUT YOU! I want you AWAY from this. I want your BROTHERS away from this, because you're not protecting them. If they're NOT being abused now, as long as they stay in this situation, IT'S A MATTER OF TIME! They're doing it to you and they're lying to you. What makes you think it will STOP with you?
My brother, PLEASE, listen to everyone here. And PLEASE keep posting. We don't think badly of you. We want you well. We want to hear what you have to say. We want to hear your voice, your pain, your hopes. WE CARE!
I love you, little brother, no strings attached, and I want nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, in return from you.
Scot
But, my dear Whiskers, it's not worth it. What you're doing, it's not worth it. Not to you, not to your brothers, nobody. It breaks my heart to see you like this because I WAS you. I was you.
Are your brothers REALLY protected? Your "mother" lies to you about how "good" you are at it, how much you "like" it. Are you sure they're not being abused by these animals? Can you REALLY know for sure?
The things that the money buys for them, is it worth your soul? Is it worth the pain you're in? Is it worth it, little brother? Really? You're here seeking help. I think we BOTH know the answer to that question.
Is it the only thing you're capable of doing? No! No, no, no, no, a thousand times no! These again are the lies they're feeding you. I was a good kid with brains, and I felt that the only time I was being "loved" was when my abuser was abusing me. You have bad grades? So what? Albert Einstein couldn't read well! Thomas Edison was dyslecsic (sp?) they say. So what about your grades? There is so much, I know, you're capable of. And this shouldn't be among them! It's not who you are, little brother! There is so much more to you, and you are worth SO much more than that!
As for their power? I've got a secret for you, one they don't want you to hear: YOU HAVE THE POWER! NOT THEM! Why do you think they fill your mind with such poison? Because they know, KNOW, the SECOND you tell, their power is gone and THEY will face the shame they've FORCED ON YOU! My little brother, YOU have the power, and they FEAR you!
My brother, PLEASE reconsider this. We care about you. I CARE ABOUT YOU! I want you AWAY from this. I want your BROTHERS away from this, because you're not protecting them. If they're NOT being abused now, as long as they stay in this situation, IT'S A MATTER OF TIME! They're doing it to you and they're lying to you. What makes you think it will STOP with you?
My brother, PLEASE, listen to everyone here. And PLEASE keep posting. We don't think badly of you. We want you well. We want to hear what you have to say. We want to hear your voice, your pain, your hopes. WE CARE!
I love you, little brother, no strings attached, and I want nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, in return from you.
Scot
Mr Whiskers,
I'm so glad you posted again and that you shared how special your brothers are to you and how getting to see them happy and feel their little arms around you makes this nightmare bearable for you. I hear you when you say that after a while you lose hope because they are so powerful and there is no one or nothing available to you that can make this any better without the chance of breaking up the only thing that matters to you which is the family of you and your brothers.
I also hear that this is the only thing in your life right now that you feel like you have any control over.
Can I make a suggestion for you to think about? Would you send me a private message just telling me what city or town you live in. What I will do is find the right phone number or email address for you to be able to ask anonymous questions about being able to keep the three of you together if you decided to make the move to get everybody out of there. The final decision would be yours.
I suggest this Mr Whiskers because I know that it is only a matter of time before one of these sick monsters thinks one of your little brothers is cute and wants to hurt them too. And when that happens you'll hurt worse than you could ever imagine. So please, I know you have no good reason to trust me or anyone else here yet but three innocent lives are at stake and this terrible decision is in your hands.
Please let us help.
Taz
I'm so glad you posted again and that you shared how special your brothers are to you and how getting to see them happy and feel their little arms around you makes this nightmare bearable for you. I hear you when you say that after a while you lose hope because they are so powerful and there is no one or nothing available to you that can make this any better without the chance of breaking up the only thing that matters to you which is the family of you and your brothers.
I also hear that this is the only thing in your life right now that you feel like you have any control over.
Can I make a suggestion for you to think about? Would you send me a private message just telling me what city or town you live in. What I will do is find the right phone number or email address for you to be able to ask anonymous questions about being able to keep the three of you together if you decided to make the move to get everybody out of there. The final decision would be yours.
I suggest this Mr Whiskers because I know that it is only a matter of time before one of these sick monsters thinks one of your little brothers is cute and wants to hurt them too. And when that happens you'll hurt worse than you could ever imagine. So please, I know you have no good reason to trust me or anyone else here yet but three innocent lives are at stake and this terrible decision is in your hands.
Please let us help.
Taz
crisispoint
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Little brother,
What Taz said makes sense. Let him help. Let US help.
You have no reason to trust anyone, I know. But as I said in the PM I sent you, we will NEVER lie to you. You will be well watched over here, and NO ONE will be allowed to hurt you anymore.
Anyone you trust here can help. Please LET us!
Peace and love, little brother.
Scot
What Taz said makes sense. Let him help. Let US help.
You have no reason to trust anyone, I know. But as I said in the PM I sent you, we will NEVER lie to you. You will be well watched over here, and NO ONE will be allowed to hurt you anymore.
Anyone you trust here can help. Please LET us!
Peace and love, little brother.
Scot
theo
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mrwhiskers,
i know these men here and each of them would give their left arm in order to help you. taz makes sense about asking anonymously what you can do to get help and keep all three of you together. if you would feel safer, you can pm anyone here on the forum such as mike church or loydy or even fred tolson the president of this organization for help. taz, crisispoint, and myself along with every other man here would want to help you and your brothers in any way we can. each one of us has been where you are now and know what it is like to be lied to and used as you are being used and lied to right now. the power of these evil people are from the secrets we are forced to keep. if you go to the police or child protection agency around you they will have to investigate. there are options, mrwhiskers that does not involve you and your brothers getting hurt or seperated. don't listen to the lies the evil men who hurt you and your "mother" are telling you about you not being any better than that. grades are affected by stress, fear, feelings, and other things go into reasons grades are down sometimes. many of the greates minds were lousy in school because they thought differently then the mold such as einstein as crisis already pointed out and many others. you are worth far far more than you know, mrwhiskers and we will help you see that but first you need to get you and your brothers to a safe place. pm anyone of us here and we will help you find the help you need, that is a promise. you are worth it, mrwhiskers.
i know these men here and each of them would give their left arm in order to help you. taz makes sense about asking anonymously what you can do to get help and keep all three of you together. if you would feel safer, you can pm anyone here on the forum such as mike church or loydy or even fred tolson the president of this organization for help. taz, crisispoint, and myself along with every other man here would want to help you and your brothers in any way we can. each one of us has been where you are now and know what it is like to be lied to and used as you are being used and lied to right now. the power of these evil people are from the secrets we are forced to keep. if you go to the police or child protection agency around you they will have to investigate. there are options, mrwhiskers that does not involve you and your brothers getting hurt or seperated. don't listen to the lies the evil men who hurt you and your "mother" are telling you about you not being any better than that. grades are affected by stress, fear, feelings, and other things go into reasons grades are down sometimes. many of the greates minds were lousy in school because they thought differently then the mold such as einstein as crisis already pointed out and many others. you are worth far far more than you know, mrwhiskers and we will help you see that but first you need to get you and your brothers to a safe place. pm anyone of us here and we will help you find the help you need, that is a promise. you are worth it, mrwhiskers.
mattandrew
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MrWhiskers,
Just sitting here reading your very post about you and what your brothers are going thru makes me feel the very same feeling that i felt in my home being abused by my father who adopted me and my brother.
It is not easy putting up with the lies and abuse that is being pushed yes I SAID PUSHED YOUR WAY,you are not just sitting there asking for it we as survivors on this board know we just don't ask to be sexually humiliated,emotionally humiliated or physically beaten and left for dead.
Man,as i sit hear writing this I honestly have tears welling up in my eyes as my abuser gets released from the very system we talk about that people think protect kids after getting taken out of abusive homes which is not what happens.
Please do not go out right away and call 911 or go calling the Police this will only makes the matter worse especially if the police show up and then won't take away the very problem your calling about the abuse is bound to get much worse in this case as you have ticked the person off that abuses you and your borthers for calling him or her in.I would on the other hand recommend getting in touch with a local crisis counselor that handles rapes or domestic abuse especially with children even though you may think people don't listen they will listen but,be aware that you may get blown off.Find someone you can really,really trust and do a hypothetical with this person without naming names and see whther or not this person bites and what i mean by bites is this: explain the situation to this person and watch their very reaction to the situation and listen carefully to what they have to say and if your gut instinct tells you to let them know it is you that is being abused then go for it on the other hand if your guts does not feel right witrh this person then go with your gut feeling most of the time your gut tells you whether or not your right about a person.Trust your most inner being and follow what it is telling you to do but be careful so as not to break up you and your brothers.
I was in your very position being abused by my adopted father and my adopted brother and I,were being abused every day and every night eventually my abuser got himself caught as we like to say, sticking his hand in the cookie jar where it did not belong.My abuser went to court and spent time behind bars in prison and in jail awaiting his trial along with then being placed on probation/parole.My abuser spent serving a sentence of 14 years out of a 17 year sentence no I don't like this but,this is the very system that says they protect us survivors and victims.
I would try to get out of the house as much as you can and get away from the person or persons that are abusing you.Take no crap,give crap right back,protect whatever you have to protect and in any fashion as long as you can protect and not lose your life or your brothers life over it,loss of life is not worth fighting but physical damage and sexual damage is worth fighting especially when it is being perpetrated upon you.
Just think on this,I personally got taken out of my home where my brother and I,were being abused and we got split up due to the system they do not care if you get split up nor what type of home you get placed into as long as the home is licensed with the state that is all they care about even the investigation they do is not done right and foster parents turn out to be abusers as well watch out for yourself and your brothers you are all you have and your brothers is all the family you have so protect it.My brother died in a foster home and I would give the world if I could trade places with him as he had longer life to lead then I did,there still are days when I think about joining him and other family members so don't think this won't happen to you in thoughts as well,it is tough my brother and I can't say the road is an easy to go down if it were not for the brothers here on this board I would not be here talking and letting you know what I experienced.
If I or any other brother on this board can help please,please,please feel free to private message us or publicly ask for our help and we as brotherhood will try to help in and manner we can.Brotherhood is about as thick as blood we stick together and protect our own WE ARE COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER.
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Just sitting here reading your very post about you and what your brothers are going thru makes me feel the very same feeling that i felt in my home being abused by my father who adopted me and my brother.
It is not easy putting up with the lies and abuse that is being pushed yes I SAID PUSHED YOUR WAY,you are not just sitting there asking for it we as survivors on this board know we just don't ask to be sexually humiliated,emotionally humiliated or physically beaten and left for dead.
Man,as i sit hear writing this I honestly have tears welling up in my eyes as my abuser gets released from the very system we talk about that people think protect kids after getting taken out of abusive homes which is not what happens.
Please do not go out right away and call 911 or go calling the Police this will only makes the matter worse especially if the police show up and then won't take away the very problem your calling about the abuse is bound to get much worse in this case as you have ticked the person off that abuses you and your borthers for calling him or her in.I would on the other hand recommend getting in touch with a local crisis counselor that handles rapes or domestic abuse especially with children even though you may think people don't listen they will listen but,be aware that you may get blown off.Find someone you can really,really trust and do a hypothetical with this person without naming names and see whther or not this person bites and what i mean by bites is this: explain the situation to this person and watch their very reaction to the situation and listen carefully to what they have to say and if your gut instinct tells you to let them know it is you that is being abused then go for it on the other hand if your guts does not feel right witrh this person then go with your gut feeling most of the time your gut tells you whether or not your right about a person.Trust your most inner being and follow what it is telling you to do but be careful so as not to break up you and your brothers.
I was in your very position being abused by my adopted father and my adopted brother and I,were being abused every day and every night eventually my abuser got himself caught as we like to say, sticking his hand in the cookie jar where it did not belong.My abuser went to court and spent time behind bars in prison and in jail awaiting his trial along with then being placed on probation/parole.My abuser spent serving a sentence of 14 years out of a 17 year sentence no I don't like this but,this is the very system that says they protect us survivors and victims.
I would try to get out of the house as much as you can and get away from the person or persons that are abusing you.Take no crap,give crap right back,protect whatever you have to protect and in any fashion as long as you can protect and not lose your life or your brothers life over it,loss of life is not worth fighting but physical damage and sexual damage is worth fighting especially when it is being perpetrated upon you.
Just think on this,I personally got taken out of my home where my brother and I,were being abused and we got split up due to the system they do not care if you get split up nor what type of home you get placed into as long as the home is licensed with the state that is all they care about even the investigation they do is not done right and foster parents turn out to be abusers as well watch out for yourself and your brothers you are all you have and your brothers is all the family you have so protect it.My brother died in a foster home and I would give the world if I could trade places with him as he had longer life to lead then I did,there still are days when I think about joining him and other family members so don't think this won't happen to you in thoughts as well,it is tough my brother and I can't say the road is an easy to go down if it were not for the brothers here on this board I would not be here talking and letting you know what I experienced.
If I or any other brother on this board can help please,please,please feel free to private message us or publicly ask for our help and we as brotherhood will try to help in and manner we can.Brotherhood is about as thick as blood we stick together and protect our own WE ARE COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER.
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Bill_1965
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Mr. Whiskers,
You are indeed in a bad place. I hate to see you having to endure that pain of the abuse, lead by your mother. I hate that you do not feel that you are not in a position to get out. It is very admirable for you to endure more of this abuse to keep your little brothers safe. Probably the only love they are recieving from within your family.
The evil people of this world, a.k.a. your mother, say things like 'your dumb', 'your useless', 'your nothing but a cute whore' to get you to beleive their lies and keep you down and quiet. That's what they are, LIES. You may not have good grades in school, but I sure don't think I would if I was going through what you are. School work would be at the bottom of the list of things to do, taking care of the little brothers at the top.
You are not alone here. What is happening to you is not your fault. You have shown you are strong and have a good and compassionate heart by placing the well-being of your little brothers above your own.
This brotherhood that we call MaleSurvivor is here to help you in any way we can. Provide you with the support you need. To hear the rants that need to be let out.
I hope you find the strength and ability to get yourself and your little brothers out of that situation. This is not a good road your on. Get yourself and your brothers out of there.
You have us here to lean on for support.
Take care,
Bill
You are indeed in a bad place. I hate to see you having to endure that pain of the abuse, lead by your mother. I hate that you do not feel that you are not in a position to get out. It is very admirable for you to endure more of this abuse to keep your little brothers safe. Probably the only love they are recieving from within your family.
The evil people of this world, a.k.a. your mother, say things like 'your dumb', 'your useless', 'your nothing but a cute whore' to get you to beleive their lies and keep you down and quiet. That's what they are, LIES. You may not have good grades in school, but I sure don't think I would if I was going through what you are. School work would be at the bottom of the list of things to do, taking care of the little brothers at the top.
You are not alone here. What is happening to you is not your fault. You have shown you are strong and have a good and compassionate heart by placing the well-being of your little brothers above your own.
This brotherhood that we call MaleSurvivor is here to help you in any way we can. Provide you with the support you need. To hear the rants that need to be let out.
I hope you find the strength and ability to get yourself and your little brothers out of that situation. This is not a good road your on. Get yourself and your brothers out of there.
You have us here to lean on for support.
Take care,
Bill
theo
Registrant
little brother,
many of us here keep asking you to take a leap of faith in the hands of authorities that can take you and your brothers out of that situation. it is true what was said above that if you call the cops right off that it could very well backfire. the suggestion to start looking around for some adult you can trust there is a very very good suggestion. you can even call the crisis hotline without them knowing your identity if you call from a payphone so that way you could ask about this kind of stuff and get some answers about who to call and what could happen. none of us here want you or your brothers harmed anymore but we cannot make the decision for you. ask us anything here we are here for you, little brother, and you and your brothers will never be alone again in this world. let us know what we can do to help, we will be here for you in any way you need us to be. take care, mr. whiskers.
many of us here keep asking you to take a leap of faith in the hands of authorities that can take you and your brothers out of that situation. it is true what was said above that if you call the cops right off that it could very well backfire. the suggestion to start looking around for some adult you can trust there is a very very good suggestion. you can even call the crisis hotline without them knowing your identity if you call from a payphone so that way you could ask about this kind of stuff and get some answers about who to call and what could happen. none of us here want you or your brothers harmed anymore but we cannot make the decision for you. ask us anything here we are here for you, little brother, and you and your brothers will never be alone again in this world. let us know what we can do to help, we will be here for you in any way you need us to be. take care, mr. whiskers.
Mr Whiskers
You are so young to have to be dealing with all of this - it concerns me very much (as it does everyone else here).
Please try and find some support to help you in this (there are many suggestions in the above posts).
The last thing I want to do is frighten you, but what if someone else in your family becomes the pretty one, how could you help them then...please, please try and find help. None of you should have to put up with this.
Supporting you all the way...Rik
You are so young to have to be dealing with all of this - it concerns me very much (as it does everyone else here).
Please try and find some support to help you in this (there are many suggestions in the above posts).
The last thing I want to do is frighten you, but what if someone else in your family becomes the pretty one, how could you help them then...please, please try and find help. None of you should have to put up with this.
Supporting you all the way...Rik
mrwhiskers
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im not a good person.
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