All Lies...........

All Lies...........
One day you will understand what it is like.

I could never hurt you.

I did the best I could with what I had.


Jonathan
 
My parents lies/ MY UN-LIES.

you should never ask questions
I SHOULD ASK QUESTIONS ALL THE TIME

if you talk to anyone about anything in the family the finger of god will strike you dead
IF I TALKED I MIGHT GET HELPED NOT KILLED

we really love you and we want what's best for you
YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHAT LOVE IS

this will hurt me more than it hurts you
WRONG IT WILL STING YOU A BIT AND HURT ME A LOT

grandma went to heaven today
LIAR YOU DO NOT EVEN BELIEVE IN HEAVEN

jesus told me to do it
YOU DECIDED TO DO IT YOURSELF

you are stupid
I AM INCREDIBLY SMART

we are going to teach you a lesson
NO YOU ARE GOING TO HIT ME A LOT
 
My lie:
It never happened!

The TRUTH has set me free!
 
My lie:
It wasn't that bad.

The Truth:
Yeah, it was. Now I can deal with it.
 
Lies I try to batlle:

I am gay

People (women) do not help, only hurt

Mom is not alcoholic

They have not wanted to possess me


Thanks.
 
My Lie:
# 1. It went on for so many years, I must have wanted it to.

# 2. It was family, so there was nothing wrong with it - just harmless experimenting.

Truth:
# 1. Wrong
# 2. Wrong
 
MY LIE!

"It's all right, all virgins go through this." - Her answer to why my body was shaking so much while she was violating me.
https://malesurvivor.org/cgi-local/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=005815;p=1#000010

TRUTH
BULLSHIT! You're first time is supposed to be special, and maybe awkward, but NOT VIOLATING!

Whoa, that felt good! :)

A LIE I do that I'm sick of doing:
"Good morning, MR, how are you today?"
"I'm (good, fine, pretty good, etc)."

TRUTH
I'm not. I want to tell them all I'm suffering, but I know none of them would be able to handle my story, and I'd spend my time defending myself from accusatory remarks and what-nots. I WANT THAT LIE TO BE THE TRUTH FOR A CHANGE!!!
 
MR,

If the "how are you?" question is out there in the big wide world, then a full honest blown reply and your reasons may not always be prudent. I'm not saying to lie, but maybe a scaled down version like OK, or probably a truthful one like "been better, but I've also been worse". I'm sure you can say that one with honesty. I know I can.

Wisdom and discernment!

In here however, I believe you need to be honest, for you own sake, and you should be able to trust the people in here when you are honest.

I'm getting so much out of being brutally honest, revealing of my inner self and all my fears, rejections, self doubt and all the yukky stuff that I dare not tell anybody else. This is so good for me to be able to do that all in the safety that is afforded in here. I trust you will feel that security too.
 
Lie

If you ignore it it goes away.

I dont need help, I can stop doing it anytime I want.
 
In here however, I believe you need to be honest, for you own sake, and you should be able to trust the people in here when you are honest.
Yeah in here I am honest. Whatever flows from my mind to the keyboard has always been honest on this forum. The "How are you?" is at work, and sometimes at home. I say I'm fine or good to avoid probing questions. I've learned all too often in past employments that to constantly portray a negative attitude can seriously affect not only the work but continued employment as well. So I use my practiced smile and be the good little employee and say I'm fine or good or not too shabby, etc...

Sorry, should have better specified. Hope this clarifies things.

MR
 
LIEs**********

I am Ugly.
I Could have stopped it.
i liked it.
it only happened a few times, there are people much worse off than you--get over it, already.
I Am Unloveable.
I Have Become My Uncle.
SomeDay I will Turn INTO My Uncle.
I am Crazy.
I Am Stupid.
I Am Not Worth It.
I Do Not Matter.
I Am A Pervert.
I Am Sick.
I Am Nasty.
I am Lost.
I am Alone.
I WILL BE SENT BACK TO THE ORPHANAGE. (A Childish Lie I believe when I was a Kid and still feel in my Bones Now and then)
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
The TRUTH!!!!

None of it Was MY Fault!!! I am The ComPlete Opposite of Most of those LIES and

The Future Is My Resposability, I Am In Charge of What I Make of It. Not My Uncle or My Parents that Missed out on Knowing an Awesome Man, Me.
 
Lie of the past:

I defend you.

Only, that you want.

I try to help you.

You are stupid.

You are nothing worth.

You - a joke.

You will never succeed.

No woman will ever love you as I do.

You - loser.

You are ugly and bad.

You speak it, I kill you.

You will die young. (I hope, that it - lie).
 
moved to an independent thread
 
If she doesn't hurt me exactly like what he did, then I can trust her.
 
"You brought this on yourself."
 
Someone just revived the post-

My biggest lie has been-

"Being truly honest about this will kill me"

The opposite has been true and continues to be true in my life.

When I have been honest about my own feelings, my struggles, and my behaviors I step out of secrecy and forward into healing-it may be painful to admit certain things but holding them in has hurt me far more.
 
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good companion thread to "dumbest thing I was ever told"

https://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=436332&page=1
 
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