All Lies...........

All Lies...........
I read these and I felt like crying. For all of you, for myself, for all of us who were made to feel like SHIT because someone wanted something they shouldn't have taken.

:mad: THIS IS A LIE!


I know you like it, you dirty little boy!

THIS IS A LIE!

I'm helping you.

THIS IS A LIE!

If you "get hard," you wanted it.

THIS IS A LIE!

If you came back to the abuser, you wanted it.

THIS IS A LIE!

You better not tell, or people won't love you.

THIS IS A LIE!

You can't be trusted with other children.

THIS IS A LIE!

You're "damaged goods."

THIS IS A LIE!

You're alone. You're worthless. You asked for it.

THIS IS A LIE!

You're not a man, and this is the best you can hope for.

THIS IS A LIE!

You're my bitch.

THIS IS A LIE!

You're only worth something if you're f****d.

THIS IS A LIE!

You let me do it.

THIS IS A LIE!

I never meant to hurt you.

:mad: :mad: :mad: THIS IS A LIE!

I'm the only one who'll ever love you like this.


:) THIS ISN'T A LIE!

You are worthy. You are loved. You are capable of loving. You are all special. I love you all, and I want nothing from you in return.

I'm so sorry for what happened to you. To all of us. We will be healed.

Scot
 
Lies

You are not worthy of love.

Your making this all up.

You shouldnt be allowed around your child, because you were sexually abused.

I have the right to beat you.

Its normal for the doctor to play with your penis and testicles when you go in for a sore toe.

You're gay if I dont want to wake up to your step-sister blowing you.

I got you your job so I can play with your ass and sexually harass you.

You went back so you wanted it.

This is normal.

I love you and I am showing you how much.
(Maybe this is true - he didnt love me at all and he was showing that).

You cant go home with only the elastic of your underwear on.
 
LIE: "Nothing ever happened to you kids."
LIE: "If anyone ever did anything, I would've killed them."
LIE: If I don't remember everything, it never happened.
LIE: I'm just making this up for attention.
LIE: If I don't say the words, then it will all go away.
LIE: I am not normal.
LIE: I'll never be normal sexually.
LIE: It wasn't a big deal.
LIE: No one will believe me.
 
THIS IS A LIE:
Nobody will know it if you testify against him.

THIS IS A LIE:
You won't see him in the courtroom.

THIS IS A LIE:
We can't prosecute him because it happened so much that the jury will think that you liked it.

THIS IS A LIE:
Nobody at school will know anything about this.

THIS IS A LIE:
The police and the D.A. will keep this quiet.

THIS IS A LIE:
The newspaper would never print your name because you're a kid.

THIS IS A LIE:
Your life will go on as if this never happened.
 
stupid lie: if you were hard, then it wasn't rape

stupid fucking lie: you wanted it

god damned lie: a female can't rape a male

another bullshit lie: she raped you and she was underage therefore you can still go to jail

lie by people who haven't been through it: i understand what you are going through

lie: a 13 year old girl can't rape a 6'8 17 year old guy

lie: you could of thrown her off you


i think i will eventually tell my story.
 
The biggest lie of them all....


YOU ARE UNWORTHY OF LOVE, YOU SICK LITTLE FREAK. YOU'RE A DIRTY LITTLE BOY AND NOBODY, I MEAN NOBODY WILL EVER LOVE YOU. YOUR MOTHER WILL HATE YOU. THEY'LL THROW YOU OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. YOUR FRIENDS WILL LAUGH AT YOU. EVERYONE WILL KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT A REAL MAN, THAT YOU CAN NEVER SATISFY SOMEONE, AND YOU ARE A TOTAL LOSER. BESIDES, YOU'RE SO F***ED UP, THIS IS THE ONLY WAY YOU'LL EVER BE LOVED, SO YOU JUST BETTER SHUT UP AND ENJOY IT.

Don't believe the hype!

Scot
 
I was not really abused. I just tell myself that to excuse what I do now.
I tell people I was abused so they will pity me.
I tell people I was abused so they will not know how much I wanted nasty sex.
I cannot tell anyone what really happened to me.
I cannot tell anyone what I do now.
I am a dirty, nasty, sick, perverted little freak.
I will never be able to manage the horror of my life.
The abuse was pleasurable and I was a willing participant.
I am a pervert because it felt good and I fantasize about it now.
This is all I deserve because secretly I craved the abuse.
I am a disgusting little faggot.
I will never amount to anything like other, un-abused people will.
If I am happy it is only because I have forgotten what I really am.
None of my feelings are real. They are just camouflage for something awful.
I cannot cry because I am only faking.
I could never satisfy a woman.
I will always be too self absorbed to be a real friend.
I am not a real man like the other men around me.
My abusers truly cared for me. I made them happy.
I am worthless trash.
I will never find someone to love because I can only pretend to love.
I can't survive on my own.
Love is nothing more than an expression of loneliness.
Only people like me could pretend to love something like me.
My life is pointless. I may survive, but nothing more.
Recovery is a stupid exercise. It is not real, at least not for me.
I am faking the pain and fear so people will pity me.
Numbness is better than this pain.
It is better to include my abuser in my life today than to feel the pain of isolation.
I can never let people know my real thoughts.
I will fuck up the most important relationships in my life.
I cannot have the sort of relationship like the ones I see all around me.
I will never enjoy sex the way a healthy couple can.
I will never stop masturbating because that is what I am.
I am helpless, hopeless and unlovable.
I will never be happy. The way I feel now will always be the way I feel.
If you saw my real emotions you would be disgusted.
Only I know the truth about me.
It hurts too much keep trying this recovery.
I am a fuck up who will never stop sabotaging himself.
I have never done anything really worthwhile.
Everybody thinks I am weird. Everyone knows I am really fucked up.
I don't like myself because I know I am a wretch. Everyone knows it.
My life is not worth living because this is irreversible.
I will never heal. I can only survive.
I am ruined to my core and I did that to myself.
I could have stopped this from ruining my life!
As a teenager I knew better and could have stopped if I had not really like it.
Sex with me is filthy. No one except and abuser would really want it.
It does not matter if it was my fault; the abuse has dammed me.
You do not understand me if you think this is not true.
 
THIS A LIE:THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WHAT WE'RE DOING-ITS JUST TWO GUYS HAVING A LITTLE FUN-WE'RE NOT HURTING ANYONE.
 
THIS IS A LIE
There is nothing wrong with this

THIS IS A LIE
I didn't do anything - what are you talking about?

THIS IS A LIE
You always did have an active imagination

THIS IS A LIE
You always did cause trouble

THIS IS A LIE
When you attack the church, you attack God

THIS IS A LIE
Nothing happened to you

Whew! I haven't read all the above, but I just had to add my own. This was a great idea. Thanks so much
 
A Lie -- This is all you're good for.

A Lie -- This is what you were made for.

A Lie -- It doesn't get any better.

A Lie -- It's not worth trying to get better.

Damn it, it is difficult and painful, but I will get better. I will be whole.
 
Lies--practically all my mother taught me--

--that "love" is an empty word.

--that I shouldn't expect anything good to happen to me because I will be disappointed.

--that I am unable to control my emotions, unable to act appropriately.

--that what I create, the good things I do, are not worthy of notice.

--that I am doomed to failure.

These lies and others I practice to expose and put aside. The world will shift in my head and heart and I will see everything with new eyes.
 
its a lie: "you'll never amount to anything"
its a lie: you will never have anything
its a lie: you are evil
its a lie: no one will ever love you for you
its a lie: i cant love
its a lie: i knew what i was doing
its a lie: im a worthless piece of shit
its a lie: i can handle this
its a lie: i dont hurt
its a lie: i cant get a job
its a lie: i can sleep
its a lie: its ok
its a lie: if i just keep drinking and doing drugs i can handle it
its a lie: life is not worth living
its a lie: hurting yourself lets pain out
its a lie: i have to forgive
its a lie: i will always hurt
its a lie: i will never heal
its a lie: i will always sabatoge myself
its a lie: i am not loveable
its a lie: i will never have a normal sex life
its a lie: i dont care
its a lie: everyone i know dies on me
its a lie: everyone is out to get me
its a lie: only i can do it right.
whew.......
that felt great
great thread!
 
LIES HE TOLD ME:

You should be happy that we adopted you when no one else wanted you.

This is our little secret (apparently the standard line..but he actually said this all the time.)

I never meant to hurt you.

You're very special to me.

LIES I'VE TOLD AND CONTINUE TO TELL MYSELF:

He didnt know any better because someone obviously did the same thing to him.

It was my fault that we got caught by mom.

It was my fault that it happened just like mom said when she caught us.

It was my fault that I didnt put a stop to it when I became a teenager.

It was my fault that I liked to feel special.

The people that Ive told cant look at me without thinking that Im dirty.

I should feel guilty because I felt free at his funeral.

I should feel guilty for not hating him enough for hurting me.

I will always feel damaged.

I will always have trouble enjoying sex with people I care about.

I will always have unprovoked waves of panic/shame.

I will always be afraid of my own emotions.

No one will ever understand.

I will never be able to fully communicate what's inside of me to anyone without using drugs as a tool.

Im generally happy with my life now, so I dont need to reach out to anyone.
 
After participating in Eddie's "False Beliefs" thread I had to post this here.

This is a lie:
"I'm different from everyone, even other survivors. I can't get better."
 
this is a lie he told me:

i love you.

he's a big fucking liar. he hurt me. he hurt all of us. that's why he made us be quiet.

i can be your daddy.

you were NEVER my daddy. as bad as my dad was, he never fucked me. i wish you never laid a hand on me. you messed up my life. scot has to live with it because i couldn't walk away.

my wife would leave me.

she should have, you sonofabitch (scot said it was okay to say this). did she know you were hurting a kid in her bed?

i hurt so much. scot tells me everyday it wasn't my fault. but it is because i believed the lied.

i'm sorry. :(

little scot
 
My list--

1) I am the family idiot.

2) My older sister doesn't need to feel any guilt for looking the other way.

3) I deserve this burden.

4) I need pity from friends and family.

5) This only happened to me because I was (and am) weak.

6) All my friends actually give a real damn.
 
My list of the lies I fell for:

This is how I show you my love.

Daddies and sons can touch each other because we are family.

You are lucky I love you.

Your just a little girl,

You enjoyed it as much as I did.

If you don't do this, I will know you don't love me.

I'm just checking to make sure you are clean.

Marc
 
maybe triger


'I need to know your body to coach you right'

'You make me do this. You are so bad, even your father have to leave you'

'You are fat, you are ugly, you are stupid'

'You are ugly basterd boy'

'I will kill you, kill your mother if you ever tell'

'If you let me do this, I promise I won't hurt no one else'

'You know you like to feel me in you, say I feel better in you'

Newest lie: 'You are still child, I still am in control of you'

NO YOU AREN"T ASSHOLE!

Yob tvayu mat', kalupa battard!
 
It's the biggest ever bullshitest LIE////

Don't worry he will get over it in time.

If that's true, then I have no concept of time
 
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