All Lies...........
All Lies...........
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This is a lie:
I am a liscensed therapist and I want to help YOU.
This is a lie:
I am a liscensed therapist and I want to HELP you.
This is a lie:
I am a liscensed therapist and I WANT to help you.
This is a lie;
I am a LISCENESED THERAPIST and I want to help you.
THIS IS A LIE:
I am a liscensed therapist, and you alone obviously have some misinterpretations about sex.
Tom S.
Quote: In these times of economic uncertainty, it is easy to see who is dedicated to professional health care, and who is in it for the money.
I am a liscensed therapist and I want to help YOU.
This is a lie:
I am a liscensed therapist and I want to HELP you.
This is a lie:
I am a liscensed therapist and I WANT to help you.
This is a lie;
I am a LISCENESED THERAPIST and I want to help you.
THIS IS A LIE:
I am a liscensed therapist, and you alone obviously have some misinterpretations about sex.
Tom S.
Quote: In these times of economic uncertainty, it is easy to see who is dedicated to professional health care, and who is in it for the money.
KleinerSpatz
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A few lies:
I could have run away
I liked it
It wasn't as bad as being beaten
it happens to all boys, so its normal
it is Gods will
I am to blaim, because I took money
I am gay, so I must like what happened
Not a lie:
I did not like it, I hated it, I did not understand, I wanted them to leave me alone, I wanted to disappear, I was scared, I was ashamed. I still am.
I could have run away
I liked it
It wasn't as bad as being beaten
it happens to all boys, so its normal
it is Gods will
I am to blaim, because I took money
I am gay, so I must like what happened
Not a lie:
I did not like it, I hated it, I did not understand, I wanted them to leave me alone, I wanted to disappear, I was scared, I was ashamed. I still am.
KleinerSpatz
Registrant
And the biggest lie of all:
It was my own fault, for being such a cute boy.
If I was ugly, it would not have happend
It was my own fault, for being such a cute boy.
If I was ugly, it would not have happend
Clapton Fan
Registrant
Brilliant thread
Its a lie
That all adults are responsable
Its a lie
That I'm useless
Its a lie
That I'm gay
Its a lie
That I'm a pervert
Its a lie
That I'm compareable to the people that killed so many on 9/11
Its a lie
That I was sixteen or legal
Its a lie
That all sex is dirty
Its a lie
That masturbation leads to blindness
Its a lie
That the recent "witchunt" in the UK is the fault of the media (and not of the abusers)
Its a lie
That I'm going mad
However IT IS TRUE.......that I'm a bloody good grandad, and thats good enough for me
And all that was left was hope
Kirk
PS: Its also a lie
That Ringo was a good drummer
Its a lie
That all adults are responsable
Its a lie
That I'm useless
Its a lie
That I'm gay
Its a lie
That I'm a pervert
Its a lie
That I'm compareable to the people that killed so many on 9/11
Its a lie
That I was sixteen or legal
Its a lie
That all sex is dirty
Its a lie
That masturbation leads to blindness
Its a lie
That the recent "witchunt" in the UK is the fault of the media (and not of the abusers)
Its a lie
That I'm going mad
However IT IS TRUE.......that I'm a bloody good grandad, and thats good enough for me
And all that was left was hope
Kirk
PS: Its also a lie
That Ringo was a good drummer
Kirk that's the main one I don't agree with but who is an Italian-American to argue with a citizen of the UK about this anyway?Brilliant thread
Its a lie
That all adults are responsable
That's for sure Kirk!
Its a lie
That I'm useless
No way!
Its a lie
That I'm gay
Its a lie
That I'm a pervert
Its a lie
That I'm compareable to the people that killed so many on 9/11
Huh?
Its a lie
That I was sixteen or legal
Its a lie
That all sex is dirty
Its a lie
That masturbation leads to blindness
Good thing or I woulda been totally blind years ago.No not bragging
just had to say it before someone else did.
Its a lie
That the recent "witchunt" in the UK is the fault of the media (and not of the abusers)
Its a lie
That I'm going mad
However IT IS TRUE.......that I'm a bloody good grandad, and thats good enough for me
Right on Kirk!
And all that was left was hope
Kirk
PS: Its also a lie
That Ringo was a good drummer
Victor
confused_n_alone
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Its a LIE
I understand how you feel
Its a lie
Just talk to me
its a lie
Talk and it will make you feel better ( WHEN)
sorry
confused n alone
I understand how you feel
Its a lie
Just talk to me
its a lie
Talk and it will make you feel better ( WHEN)
sorry
confused n alone
There are more new guys coming around, and there are more lies I want to expose.
This is a lie:
It's not a big deal. I can handle it.
This is a lie:
I wanted it. I asked for it.
This is a lie:
I can't ever get better.
This is a lie:
Everyone can see that I'm dirty and unworthy.
This is the biggest lie (to me) of all:
Suicide is a way out.
This is a lie:
It's not a big deal. I can handle it.
This is a lie:
I wanted it. I asked for it.
This is a lie:
I can't ever get better.
This is a lie:
Everyone can see that I'm dirty and unworthy.
This is the biggest lie (to me) of all:
Suicide is a way out.
Mike Church
Registrant
It's a lie
We are only giving you what you really want!!!
We are only giving you what you really want!!!
Reader2002
Registrant
So many of these lies are consistent with what I was told!!!
The perp: My ex-brother-in-law.
Lies I've heard and believed...
It's a lie... from perp:
Don't tell anyone, especially anyone in your family. They just would not understand what we have.
It's a lie... from perp:
Wow, you must have been expecting this. You are all ready for me and look how big you are.
It's a lie... from perp:
No one will every make you feel like this again.
Women, don't understand what a man really wants.
It's a lie...
Gifts from the perp are not gifts... they
are bribes and "rewards". Neither of which
were really wanted.
It's a lie... overheard mother talking:
"XXXX and his father never really did get along."
"He really never forgave his father for letting it happen."
Fact is... I told my mother. She said not to tell my father because he wouldn't be able to handle it.
The real lie? NOT ADDRESSING THE PROBLEM and blaming someone else for not doing something about it.
It's a lie... from perp:
"This time you don't have to swollow"
The truth... I didn't have a choice.
It's a lie... unspoken lie:
He cared about me. It's confusing because I don't
know what it's like to be close to a guy. I want guy friends but NOT a boyfriend.
It's a lie... personal.
Every guy out there has had it better than me.
Why can't I be like them.
It's a lie...
"He must be gay. If not, then why did he do it then and for so long.
The truth: Exreme fear, and an abusive father. There was no choice.
It's a lie... from mother:
"Just go with him, you're just going for a ride"
Right... just a ride.
A horrible lie... !
I told my sister about the perp. She said she would watch for it, and it shouldn't happen.
All of her 3 boys were molested. And still? Nothing was done about it!
Looking the other way is a big lie and betrayal.
Again, blame someone else.
The horrible secret?
My sister and brother were also molested by the same man. Punishment for the perp? Nada, zilch, zero. It's disgusting.
It's 25 years later, and I'm still impacted by the abuse that lasted almost 2 1/2 years.
It's hard reading all of these posts... but I'm glad I'm not alone.
Thank you everyone for sharing and god bless you!
The perp: My ex-brother-in-law.
Lies I've heard and believed...
It's a lie... from perp:
Don't tell anyone, especially anyone in your family. They just would not understand what we have.
It's a lie... from perp:
Wow, you must have been expecting this. You are all ready for me and look how big you are.
It's a lie... from perp:
No one will every make you feel like this again.
Women, don't understand what a man really wants.
It's a lie...
Gifts from the perp are not gifts... they
are bribes and "rewards". Neither of which
were really wanted.
It's a lie... overheard mother talking:
"XXXX and his father never really did get along."
"He really never forgave his father for letting it happen."
Fact is... I told my mother. She said not to tell my father because he wouldn't be able to handle it.
The real lie? NOT ADDRESSING THE PROBLEM and blaming someone else for not doing something about it.
It's a lie... from perp:
"This time you don't have to swollow"
The truth... I didn't have a choice.
It's a lie... unspoken lie:
He cared about me. It's confusing because I don't
know what it's like to be close to a guy. I want guy friends but NOT a boyfriend.
It's a lie... personal.
Every guy out there has had it better than me.
Why can't I be like them.
It's a lie...
"He must be gay. If not, then why did he do it then and for so long.
The truth: Exreme fear, and an abusive father. There was no choice.
It's a lie... from mother:
"Just go with him, you're just going for a ride"
Right... just a ride.
A horrible lie... !
I told my sister about the perp. She said she would watch for it, and it shouldn't happen.
All of her 3 boys were molested. And still? Nothing was done about it!
Looking the other way is a big lie and betrayal.
Again, blame someone else.
The horrible secret?
My sister and brother were also molested by the same man. Punishment for the perp? Nada, zilch, zero. It's disgusting.
It's 25 years later, and I'm still impacted by the abuse that lasted almost 2 1/2 years.
It's hard reading all of these posts... but I'm glad I'm not alone.
Thank you everyone for sharing and god bless you!
ScottyTodd
Registrant
Guys - lies are sometimes hard to verbalize because for so long we thought they were true! Some lies I encountered:
* It's your fault
* Just don't let them touch you
* My body doesn't belong to me
* Anybody can do whatever they want to me
* You're not strong enough to ever stop
being a victim
* You can only be my friend if you let
me have sex with you
* You liked it because you got an erection
* It my was my fault cause it felt good
* Nobody can stop others having sex wih me
* I'm a dirty, pervert, sinful, slutty
sex crazed boy ( at 5)
* If you love me, you'll let me have sex
* Everybody does it, just don't tell your
parents
* If you tell, I'll tell them you did it
first
* There's no way you'll ever be clean
* You can't stop having sex with everybody
for the rest of your life
* Everybody will know that I've been used
for sex
* I'm broken for life - no hope, no rescue
* If you ever knew the real me, you would
see I really am rotten and no good
* You will never have anything good
* You deserve crap from everybody
THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE LIES that screwed up my head and kept my walls high, thick and impregnable. These lies were locked deep behind my walls to keep my inner self dark, smelly and sick.
AS I LET LIGHT COME THROUGH THE WALLS, the lies were seen for just what they are!!! The more light the less lies...Light takes the darkness away; the walls fall and life begins for real!
Howard
* It's your fault
* Just don't let them touch you
* My body doesn't belong to me
* Anybody can do whatever they want to me
* You're not strong enough to ever stop
being a victim
* You can only be my friend if you let
me have sex with you
* You liked it because you got an erection
* It my was my fault cause it felt good
* Nobody can stop others having sex wih me
* I'm a dirty, pervert, sinful, slutty
sex crazed boy ( at 5)
* If you love me, you'll let me have sex
* Everybody does it, just don't tell your
parents
* If you tell, I'll tell them you did it
first
* There's no way you'll ever be clean
* You can't stop having sex with everybody
for the rest of your life
* Everybody will know that I've been used
for sex
* I'm broken for life - no hope, no rescue
* If you ever knew the real me, you would
see I really am rotten and no good
* You will never have anything good
* You deserve crap from everybody
THESE ARE JUST SOME OF THE LIES that screwed up my head and kept my walls high, thick and impregnable. These lies were locked deep behind my walls to keep my inner self dark, smelly and sick.
AS I LET LIGHT COME THROUGH THE WALLS, the lies were seen for just what they are!!! The more light the less lies...Light takes the darkness away; the walls fall and life begins for real!
Howard