A new chapter in my sex life.

[justplainme]

I had sex with my beautiful girl and did not think about the abuse for one second, i was too involved in our lovemaking, i hope this can restore faith in all of you who have suffered PTSD with flashbacks during sex. Rape flashbacks are like a virus clinging to every sexual energy you might have, i ditched the anti-virus solutions and just upgraded my whole system, making the virus obsolete. A new lease on my sexual life. Abuse no more.

 

[NoSimpleMachine]

Love it! So happy for you

 

[justplainme]

I appreciate the sentiments NosimpleMachine.

 

[Jude]

Just goes to show that the root of happiness is piness.

I too was recently able to stay present during sex. No dissociation. No race to the finish line to get it over with. Never occurred to me before that you could relate to your partner while making love.

 

[randombreeze]

jpm, this is great news, and I'm so happy for you. I've also struggled with sexual dysfunction for 40 plus years, and have two failed marriages in my past to prove it.

Since finally facing my abuse head on this year, I've been able to experience uninhibited sex with my g/f. While there's an occasional setback and I'm still not always 100% "present" all the time, I'm getting better at staying in the present at all times, not just during lovemaking.

Here's to continued sexual health for you and everyone else that have had to deal with the cancer like effects of CSA. Never, ever, ever give up feeling good about yourself or your ability to trust.

Paul

 

[justplainme]

Here ,here! Thanks for the support my friends. appreciate it.

 

[NoSimpleMachine]

Just goes to show that the root of happiness is piness.

I laughed out loud, I really did.