It's hard to believe it's 2019 and men are still fighting for this recognition. Forced penetration isn't rape in the U.S. either. It's sexual assault. The feds say rape means being forcibly penetrated by a penis, so men can be raped anally and orally, and only by other men. Anything else and it's defined as sexual assault, for which the penalties are often lighter. And until 2015, the feds said men couldn't be raped, period.
Yet another case of the law not bringing justice to victims.