Oic,
I am the same here. I refuse to attend any such events, makes me fucking sick to my stomache, and can feel the bile rise in my throat!!
"I don't want to be in an office, or be in your clique.
You're more than a piece of work, you're freaking toxic."
Brilliant, this is how I feel about many employers, my body is my own, and I will not be blackmailed or abused by employers trying to take advantage!!. . . when this happens, middle fingers get proudly raised, and I walk out without a care! My body is MINE!!!