Len / Dave - there must be many people that have read this post & may want to help in some way.
What sort of help is it that is required
However there have also come to light a couple of other areas that are in great need of help.
What are the other areas.
I think that I am doing well personally, but am unsure as to what I could offer. I am not trained in counselling, although I readily offer my opinions/feelings. I've only been dealing with this properly for around 4 months now, so do I have any skills that are relevant?
There are now a number of people that know I was abused, but I have not announced it over a tannoy yet (unlike some of the braver people here)!
Best wishes...Rik
I've put my response here, rather than a pm, as others may be seeking similar answers.
Sorry to be a pain....Rik