Why am I the one who is paying for this
We're not doing this work to memorialize the sexual trauma, to build an altar at which we worship every day. The tragedy of the trauma is precisely that we keep carrying it with us. We keep making choices, indulging in feelings all of which were generated by the trauma. We act out the trauma both through behaviors and in our minds. Honestly, it can't be different than that UNTIL it is different. We first tell ourselves the painful truth. Being able to step out of the trauma takes great courage, but it is only when we do that that we can acknowledge the truth of what happened.
I am also getting rid of all of the toxic relationships and acquaintances that have kept me from enjoying life in the present.
Thanks for this, Visitor. These words really hit home for me...had me thinking "that's IT! that's it exactly!"
I think all of us who are fans of Rainer Maria Rilke need to stick together...
I appreciate your contributions and the fact you chose to become a member. MS is like a desert oasis... the place where we find sustenance after a life-long struggle with our demons.